Lostguy33 Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 Well, let me give you all the story. I asked this girl I liked out (was told she liked me) some things got in the way so it didn't happen. By the way she said sure to the date. But, a week later I asked her if she still wanted to hang out this summer and that's when I remembered to get her #, she said yeah but she's gonna be in Connecticut for the rest of June. That's fine, so i called her once and texted her once to see if she wanted to go out to a movie before she left, and a couple days later she still hasn't answered. She gave me her # knowing I'd ask her out, yet she doesn't answer or reply back? Some closure would be nice... =/ Thanks.
carhill Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 Call her when she gets back in July. No "hanging out" unless you don't know her at all. The movie idea is fine. Be specific. Give her one opportunity. No need for closure yet. Lots of other girls to ask out
Author Lostguy33 Posted June 26, 2008 Author Posted June 26, 2008 Should I do anything else besides calling her in July? I just don't get why shes blowing me off. First she's into me and said yes to a date, then she's totally ignoring me and not responding.. not cool. =(
gfto Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 Date other women Absolutely. Guy, this girl is blowing you off. Just because a woman gives her number, it does not mean she wants to go out with you. (I know, it doesn't make sense, but that's just how it is.) What exactly "got in the way"?
Author Lostguy33 Posted June 27, 2008 Author Posted June 27, 2008 My cousin got shot while hunting and I had to take him to the emergency room.
carhill Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 Whoa, sorry to hear that. Hope he gets better soon....
Author Lostguy33 Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 Well, I'm 17 and she's 17. Does that change anything? Like the why, or whatever?
Author Lostguy33 Posted July 3, 2008 Author Posted July 3, 2008 Well, I called her and left a message saying "Hey, what's up, how's Connecticut? How you doing? Call me. Cya." Think she may still be there. But, if she doesn't even call me back from that message what does that mean? I assume it means I'm not interested anymore.. but hey, what do I know? =(
JoeNewbie Posted July 3, 2008 Posted July 3, 2008 I'd say keep her in your back burner but date other women as well.
Author Lostguy33 Posted July 3, 2008 Author Posted July 3, 2008 Yeah, I'm still hanging out with other girls and dating some too. She's always in the back of my mind though.
carhill Posted July 3, 2008 Posted July 3, 2008 Continue. Sounds like you're doing fine. Hope your cousin is better. Don't contact "the girl" anymore. Just don't. Repeat after me
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