Kman21 Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 will we ever heal COMPLETELY from a break up? will we ever find someone better? Will we ever move on? Will we ever stop checking their Myspace or Facbook? Will we ever become normal again? These are some of the questions I ask myself... feel free to comment.
serratededges Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 I think it depends on your definition of healing completely. Most people we date, no matter the situation, heal mostly during a break up. I think that if it is a very close relationship that at some time or other it will be thought of. I know the pain eases (not that the one from my last relationship which ended six days ago is eased much at this point. I don't know about the finding someone better. Either way you can always find someone better for you, but the "value' of an ex is often placed higher than it should be. We will all move on since that is an element of life, that is not always that pleasant. Also, eventually we'll hopefully only check their myspace page once every few months. I haven't been normal since I can remember so that one is probably not going to happen overall. Do you think we will ever have a day where we stop thinking about the person and the relationship we can not have? I hope so.
BillClam Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 My ex was my first, which is a bummer, because I've heard those can stick with you. But yes, there will be others, and by others, I mean more than one, so there will be more exes, and more dumping, but the thing to do is take lessons learned from the previous relationship and apply it to the next. Start being happy though as soon as you can, and things will start sooner! BTW, I have the myspace Facebook problem too, I recommend blocking the person on Facebook, that will make it so you can't see their profile. As for Myspace, no clue.
df273 Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 I too have a myspace problem. I dont log in anymore, but still seem to check her page everyday. It is a bad bad bad habbit, but seems to be hard to kick. I would recommend doing what every you can to prevent from doing so. It may sound hypocritical, but keep away from it.
Lost&Confused85 Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 I concur I just recently just deleted my facebook and my myspace. It made me crazy so I got rid of them both.
sparktonSS Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 Yeah, you guys are nuts. Its like World of Warcraft, only not. It still has millions of people addicted like crack. Insane. will we ever heal COMPLETELY from a break up? >Yes, you will completely heal from a break up. Time heals. will we ever find someone better? >You never know. Usually, when you find someone else, you find somethings that you like about your new person, so you say that they are better. But, what makes someone better? The question really cannot be answered. Will we ever move on? >See answer one. Will we ever stop checking their Myspace or Facbook? >Get off of myspace/facebook/xanga now. What is it doing for you??? Absolutely nothing. Might as well go play world of warcraft while you are at it. Will we ever become normal again? >Normal? Again this question cannot be answered. If you mean if you will not be hurting ever again, then the answer is yes, you will not be hurting forever.
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