Author sultry33 Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 sultry is it getting easier? i'm considering a breakup, and I was wondering how long the hot and cold feelings of "no i need him" and "i'm a strong woman" go on for. those feelings just seem like too much for me to handle..and the most i've had to deal with that for was 2 days. lolo.. to be honest it hurts less now.. never thought it would as i trully believed we would make it, but when you tried your damn hardest and hit the bottom there is only one way to go and thats up! i couldnt even go a min without thinking about him.. and sometimes i still think of him, but it hurts less. i have made myself move on.. deleted his number BIG STEP.. told him no more contact.. ive gone out more, smiled more.. had few kinda dates.. nothing seriuos just a friend or 2.. i have joined dating sites.. yeah that was very strange as i thought it would be but honestly the attention from others is good.. stops you feeling so miserable an ugly.. worthless and hurt which i felt plus eases the loneliness im my cheeky self and am having a ball:D im having coffee with a really nice guy tomo and i cannot wait.. im not going to be wasting my life waiting around for someone that left me.. go for it lolo if you are not happy where your at.. if you want support people here are fantastic if you want to msn my mail is [email protected] be glad to help each other my feelings have got more stronger towards coping in the last 3 weeks.. basically when id had enough of the chasing and meaningless sex.. i wanted our love to return not will fit me in.. had a bad day a few weekends ago but i was drunk and had a good night but missed him when i got home.. it happens.. but you miss smoking an thats a bad habbit..
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