fiser360 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 My ex and i have been broken up for about a month and a half now, our two year anniversary would be tomorrow. I would love to get back with her so badly. I broke up with her one day after getting angry for no reason, mostly because of an acne medicine (accutane) that makes me pretty emotional. But i realized my mistake and tried to get back with her and she said no. Then i talked to one of her best friends (one of my ex's) who has a boyfriend. And was like yeah, we had a good relationship and stuff...just wanting companionship and stuff. no relationship or anything. So my ex asks me to get back together with her. We do, and we are SOOO happy. Then one day she calls me and tells me we are through due to what i said to the other girl when we were not together (she also made up a bunch of stuff too.) Then we went to england together because we had planned the trip way before we broke up. Before we left she told me she was now dating another guy. In england she was always hugging me, and laying all over me. At night she would come crawl into bed with me and cuddle. Then when we got home she kind of kicked me out of her life, except for calling and texting me occasionally to see what im doing and how i am. Everyone keeps telling me that we will get back together that i need to just wait it out. Her family and I were very close they had already taken me in as part of their family. They hope we get back together due to the fact we were so in love with each other for 2 years. Can anyone help or give their input on this? I want to know if I will get a second chance. She is my world. I continue to dream about her and think about her all the time. Thank you everyone
feelinblu Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 Have you told her how you feel? I think you should tell her, and then give her her time and wait it out like everyone's telling you. Then go work on yourself, and live your life. Unfortunately, you can't really do anything specific to get someone back, but respecting their wishes for time, space, etc. can only help. Besides, I would hope you only want to get back with her if she wants back with you too. As long as you lay that out there about how you feel, there will be nothing holding her back if she decides to give it a go too. Also, remember the person you were when she fell in love with you. Try to become that person again, or even a better person than that. Focusing on becoming a better person in my own experience has helped me a lot. I figure it's a win win. You can't really lose if you are becoming happy with yourself. You are the ONLY person you ever have to live with in your life, so make the most of that. Hang in there, I know heartbreak sucks
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