goingforgold Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 someone you like to call???? I have posted before on here about a situation i was in, and had the hots for a guy who showed interest in me over a year ago but he was in a relationship as was i at the time. Then he became single (this was about a year ago) and now i'm single, we lost contact and i'm very keen to find him. I tracked him down using a PI and the electoral roll and managed to find where he is living. I went to great lengths to find this man as i felt an incredible connection with him in only a couple of brief conversations that we had. Was unable to get a current phone number for him, the one he had has been disconnected. I decided to snail mail him a note on Sunday night, asking him to contact me as i would love to catch up. He still hasnt called but i think it's still early days. He wouldn't of got it until Tuesday and it's only Friday! Now i am hoping i have the right person or hoping he isnt with someone. Do you think i'm being a bit to impatient? And if you received a note like that and were in a r/s or no longer interested wouldnt you let them know you had recieved their request to catch up but dont want to and if i have got the wrong address (which i very much doubt) would it be common courtesy to let the person know they have got the wrong person (i know i would) I am feeling a bit confused, any advice would be great to get me through the weekend!
cutegirl Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I find using a Private Investigator and electoral roll in order to locate someone you had a connection with rather stalkerish. I would be kind of freaked out if someone went through such great lengths to find me.
Lucasarts Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 um just a lil creepy to go such lengths. . . If a girl did that to find me I would b a bit worried, considering if I was ever get involved with this girl, I would have to realize that she just might be a bit crazy and do something quite dangerous to herself or to me if I ever left her. I would just let it go and find someone else. Unless fate allows you two to meet again without stalking each other, I just don't see it working out.
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