Delphine Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 and i don't have it. I can't sleep at night. Each night for this past week is staying up crying. My friends not understand, and are to busy with there -boy- life... but im not. There was this guy, i LOVED him. As soon as i fall for him, he doesnt want me. I was hurt. I even cheated with on my one boyfriend that moved to FL. he never found out.. but the guy i fell in love with doent want me... he would tell me how if he was my boyfriend how better he would be, and how were going to get married.. he turned out joke about getting married to reaity. but i was just being used for him to 'get' with me... i cried, ill never be over him.. and i just feel like doing anything with any guy...i dont need self-respect, ive been soo depressed, i NEVER felt this way about ANYONE.. im not lieing. i am hurt, badly, i cant sleep, nor eat. The only thing i want to do is cry and my sunless room. I tried to -hook- up with other guys that i had some feeling for, but i guess i came on to strongly...when they came on to me first..i just want to pain to go away, adive would help
Javelin Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 You're crying because the guy you *cheated* with doesn't want you? That's probably a good dose of Karma, smacking you in the face. Well isn't it obvious why he doesn't want you? He knows that you're a cheater and you try to make yourself feel better by hooking up with random people! So why date someone capable of cheating on them? You have no self respect, no self control, and you're a walking mess. Who the hell would date anyone like that, unless they wanted to experience total failture. I suggest you get a serious grip on reality and get your life together. Oh and break-up with that poor soul you're dating, he deserves a better chance at life.
twice_shy Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 You're crying because the guy you *cheated* with doesn't want you? That's probably a good dose of Karma, smacking you in the face. Well the karma is definitely smacking, but she cheated on her X with the guy she is saying she is in love with. But the guy that wanted in her pants said all those things to get there and lure her away from her bf so she would cheat. so yes, hella karma
smoothrider Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I've slept with many women in relationships and that are married it's my lifestyle. I find it funny when some of these women leave their men to be with me, I always set them straight that this has always just been about sex with me, the excitement of having another mans woman and he doesn't know. The whole idea that I would want to spend my life with them after they so clearly disrespected themselves to be with my is laughable. Your just cheap p*ssy and always were. I suggest you learn from this. Fix yourself up. Either play the field or find someone to commit to but go and learn what commitment means.
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 i dont need self-respect...and i don't have it. Yes, you do need it. Your family situation sucks. Your going to have to rise above it. Listen, you hurt your BF with no emotion and complete disregard for his feelings. Where did you learn to treat people like that? At home? Do you want to be as bad a person as your parents? Do you want to go through life selfishly hurting others without care for thier feelings? As you hurt others... so too have you been hurt. If you hurt others... you will get hurt. If you are nice and do the right thing... more often others will treat you with kindness and respect. Learn from this...
Author Delphine Posted June 20, 2008 Author Posted June 20, 2008 i did break up with him the next day for a chance with the other guy.. the guy i was with only wanted sex.. i was CLEAR of that, he basically told me.- thats why i didnt care and the other guy-that i was hurt by- made it seem alot like he cared for me ---you honestly helped ALOT.. i thank you
Author Delphine Posted June 20, 2008 Author Posted June 20, 2008 i did break up with him the next day for a chance with the other guy.. the guy i was with only wanted sex.. i was CLEAR of that, he basically told me.- thats why i didnt care and the other guy-that i was hurt by- made it seem alot like he cared for me ---you honestly helped ALOT.. i thank you and what yous said, is going to have to soak in.. i never looked at it in that way... and when i say -cheating- all i ever did was 'cuddle' in the back of his van... not even makeout, just so you assumers know that - ill be sure to make things more clear..
Author Delphine Posted June 21, 2008 Author Posted June 21, 2008 Dear everyone that cared, Im MUCH better, i dont care about it anymore.. i dont regret anything, this experiment just made me better in a way..its just all pass.. i just need to wait till someone worth my time comes and stop looking.so im over it and done. I DO have self-respect, i guess i just was over reacting
Spectre Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 In the future don't cuddle with other dudes behind ur bf's back, its disrespectful.
Javelin Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 and what yous said, is going to have to soak in.. i never looked at it in that way... and when i say -cheating- all i ever did was 'cuddle' in the back of his van... not even makeout, just so you assumers know that - ill be sure to make things more clear.. In my book, cheating is cheating. That said, when someone used the term 'cheat' I automatically assume you did something, which could be anything with someone other than your designated partner. Anyway, I'm glad you found advice here and are moving onto the right path. Good Luck in your future endeavors.
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 Dear everyone that cared, Im MUCH better, i dont care about it anymore.. i dont regret anything, this experiment just made me better in a way..its just all pass.. i just need to wait till someone worth my time comes and stop looking.so im over it and done. I DO have self-respect, i guess i just was over reacting I'm very glad you have self respect... because your going to need it in this life. You have many hard choices to make in the future. I'm sorry your family situation is not good. I realize that can be very tough, in fact it will make things much, much harder, when those important life choices come flying at you! Just keep your head up high. Never settle for somone who "just wants sex." Even if that's all you want too... it's a game you can't win. Look for a guy who wants you for all that you are... even the ugly parts. Best of Luck!
Author Delphine Posted June 26, 2008 Author Posted June 26, 2008 In the future don't cuddle with other dudes behind ur bf's back, its disrespectful. im wasnt planning on it, it was just a one time thing that i learned from
45Reverse Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I've slept with many women in relationships and that are married it's my lifestyle. I find it funny when some of these women leave their men to be with me, I always set them straight that this has always just been about sex with me, the excitement of having another mans woman and he doesn't know. The whole idea that I would want to spend my life with them after they so clearly disrespected themselves to be with my is laughable. Your just cheap p*ssy and always were. I suggest you learn from this. Fix yourself up. Either play the field or find someone to commit to but go and learn what commitment means. Hey...you're a real class act Can't wait to read your posts after one of their husbands gets a hold of you.
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