gummybear Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Maybe we can learn from each other and make it happen in a consolidated way: If your ex broke up with you and they came back: 1) Why did they breakup with you in the first place? 2) What was the NC situation? If you did NC, how long did it last for? Who finally contacted who? 3) If you didn't do NC, what method did you use? 4) Give a brief summary of how it all happened that they came back. If you were the one who broke up with your ex but then wanted them back: 1) Why did you breakup with them in the first place? 2) What was the NC situation? If you did NC, how long did it last for? Who finally contacted who? 3) When you were apart from them, what was going through your head? Was it hard for you to try to not miss them? Did you second-guess your decision alot? 4) Give a brief summary of how it all happened that you wanted them back. Thanks in advance for sharing
kizik Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Sorry, i'm done with college for the semester and REALLY don't feel like doing homework.
4givrnt4gtr Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Maybe we can learn from each other and make it happen in a consolidated way: If your ex broke up with you and they came back: 1) Why did they breakup with you in the first place? 2) What was the NC situation? If you did NC, how long did it last for? Who finally contacted who? 3) If you didn't do NC, what method did you use? 4) Give a brief summary of how it all happened that they came back. If you were the one who broke up with your ex but then wanted them back: 1) Why did you breakup with them in the first place? 2) What was the NC situation? If you did NC, how long did it last for? Who finally contacted who? 3) When you were apart from them, what was going through your head? Was it hard for you to try to not miss them? Did you second-guess your decision alot? 4) Give a brief summary of how it all happened that you wanted them back. Thanks in advance for sharing 1. cuz i saw a few dirty texts to some other chick 2. At first it lasted for a week, then he contacted me. I then realized I needed him to figure out wether he loved me for real or not so I asked him to not contact me until he did (not sure that was too smart though). One week so far. 3. At first I was angry. I couldnt believe what he did. THen i felt proud i kicked his butt to the curb. After the anger set though and I talked to some people I realized I couldnt let go of someone I loved so much without giving him a chance to fight for me. 4. Bassically time allowed me to cool off and see how much I love the guy. However it also allowed me to see that despite that I want to be loved back. In essense all Im doing now is allowing him to show me he loves me, if he cant then at least I know I wont have any "what ifs"
kaykin1975 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 1. My xh left because I HAD a gambling problem. After 8 yrs of marriage, he couldn't take it anymore. 2. Can't do NC...we have a 5 year old son. We talk frequently, and not just about our son. 3. For awhile I would use any excuse to talk to him/text him. I finally learned 3 short days ago to let HIM initiate. Let him miss me for once. VERY hard to do!! 4. Not back yet....but hoping and praying!! A quick note: KIZIK...no one said you had to do this, so why even bother with the rude response???
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