Lucky555 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 the last guy i dated i found out literally that my suspicions were true. He was corresponding with his ex gf all while see me. Hence his emotional attachment to her and using me to get away. I felt it and i knew something was up. He on the other hand never said a peep about his ex. However, i fell for this guy pretty hard that i had posted about but now that is over I get really tense when someone brings it up. its like having a bad memory and those feelings associate with it arise. I want to desensitize myself. I believe i have moved on but my emotions are tied to this when someone brings him up. My question is how do i just clear my head from him? Does hypnosis work? Like i tense up over a discussion about him today when i didnt bring it up, and i feel like i should be over it. I should do some sort of thing to rid my mind of these awful feelings that i feel about him. Yes, he did me wrong but i rather be happy than hold a grudge. Any tips Oh i am not in contact with him either.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I think you are holding onto it pretty hard because he betrayed your trust. Best thing to do is accept that it did happen and not run away from the emotional attachment of things. Try to take it a day at a time, you might feel angry one day, and the next, apathetic.
bayouboi Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Now I don't want you to go starting any rumors, but the next time he's brought up I want you to tell yourself that he left you because he got a sex change. That way he's no longer accessible to you, and instead of feeling angry about it, you will only be able to laugh. Breast implants and cut off his willy.
Author Lucky555 Posted June 20, 2008 Author Posted June 20, 2008 hey thanks both of you...The whole sex change thing VERY CLEVER! I laughed when i read it. Thanks i will try it! lol
Author Lucky555 Posted June 20, 2008 Author Posted June 20, 2008 By the way everyone i tried thinking of the whole sex change thing and it worked i started laughing when the name was mentioned! THANKS
Keridan Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Don't forget to picture what he looks like as a woman. You know that he was still dealing with his ex because she had that dress he REALLY wanted to borrow! And he probably never did return her make-up ... The sex change thing is great advice I also suggest you try and move on. Not necessarily jump into another relationship, but try and focus on the possibility of replacing him with someone better or getting caught up in great moments with friends or anything else besides getting stuck on thoughts of him.
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