bayouboi Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I'm a Virgo and a lot of these things you describe negatively about them in general seems like it could fit me. How can I break myself out of this mold??? Aaaaaaaa halp!
Stockalone Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 My virgo boy lived far, so we used to meet only once in every two weeks, therefore I rarely had a chance to constantly ask for sex. But whenever we met, I surely made him work hard, to compensate for the two weeks we didn't see each other...nothing wrong with that Nothing wrong with that. My best, and basically only meaningful relationship (who was a LDR for some time) was with a Taurus. We got along just fine, even when I had to "work" overtime on the weekends. Hm, so far virgo boys sure seem like a bad choice as a partner. But a few of the negatives do describe me. Let's see: Very much so, tell me about. Too much obsession with healthy stuff too, geez, can you relax a bit and eat pizza for a change?? I usded to be "health aware" as an athlete and soldier but these days as a civilian, I have a fairly unhealthy lifestyle. I still don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs. I also don't drink coffee. But I love pizza and fatty food. Just seemed very pretentious and judgmental. Would point out your flaws without consideration for feelings, yet they were "perfect." Jugdmental? Yes. Pretentious? No, I am fairly modest. Perfect? No, but a part of me sure tries to be. Expected mountains from you when they may accomplish little. No, I hold others to the same standards that I also apply to myself. Unrealistic expectations. Rude. Narcissistic. Weird sexual energy. I prefer to call it high expectations instead of unrealistic ones. I am sometimes rude, because I am honest and don't sugarcoat much. Not narcissistic. Weird sexual energy could be true though. Looks like I am not helping the virgo boy image. But there have to be some positive traits associated with being a virgo.
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I'm a Virgo and a lot of these things you describe negatively about them in general seems like it could fit me. How can I break myself out of this mold??? Aaaaaaaa halp! You must simply become reborn. That is your only hope.
Starting Over Again Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I knew you were a scorpio as soon as I read the topic!!! Damn, just knew it. I'm a scorpio. I always find out after I get along w/ someone they're either scorpio or cancer. Scorps are the emotionally sensitive ones cancer are the strong ones who tell us to stop worrying. And if feels safe with a cancer around. Man I know!! I'm not a believer in the astrological thing behind it, but as far as personalities and stuff.. yup. I think it has more to do with the timing of when you're born and the season's.. scorps are born in winter so we come into a cold world trapped inside the house. cancers are born in summer so their first knowledge of the world is hot and sunny and everybody barbequeing on the grill. Scorpios are always reallllly deep, emotional, creative.. and good in bed!!!
melodymatters Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I knew you were a scorpio as soon as I read the topic!!! Damn, just knew it. I'm a scorpio. I always find out after I get along w/ someone they're either scorpio or cancer. Scorps are the emotionally sensitive ones cancer are the strong ones who tell us to stop worrying. And if feels safe with a cancer around. Man I know!! I'm not a believer in the astrological thing behind it, but as far as personalities and stuff.. yup. I think it has more to do with the timing of when you're born and the season's.. scorps are born in winter so we come into a cold world trapped inside the house. cancers are born in summer so their first knowledge of the world is hot and sunny and everybody barbequeing on the grill. Scorpios are always reallllly deep, emotional, creative.. and good in bed!!! Y'all aren't THAT good ! My 2 scorpio men seemed obsessed with sex, but in actuality, it was a lot more talk than action ! My daughter is a cancer, my mom is a scorpio and my sis is an aquarius. I love them all, but give me a fellow fire sign any day !
Pedigree Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 So what are Aquariuses like in relationships? I've been told that we're too cold to be in one.
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 So what are Aquariuses like in relationships? I've been told that we're too cold to be in one. They are the best.
Carmen87 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 So what are Aquariuses like in relationships? I've been told that we're too cold to be in one. Well, I am an Aquarius and so is my current SO. SOME Aquarians are very flightly and hate routine therefore can get a bad rep for relationships. However, I am an emotional person when it comes to relationships. We are a very loyal sign, but head strong. My boyfriend is much like an Aquarius. He has limited attention span, gets bored easy, but he loves with all his heart.
SugarKiss Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I am interested in hearing more Taurus men stories...if anyone has more anecdotes about Taurus men please share.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I knew you were a scorpio as soon as I read the topic!!! Damn, just knew it. I'm a scorpio. I always find out after I get along w/ someone they're either scorpio or cancer. Scorps are the emotionally sensitive ones cancer are the strong ones who tell us to stop worrying. And if feels safe with a cancer around. Man I know!! I'm not a believer in the astrological thing behind it, but as far as personalities and stuff.. yup. I think it has more to do with the timing of when you're born and the season's.. scorps are born in winter so we come into a cold world trapped inside the house. cancers are born in summer so their first knowledge of the world is hot and sunny and everybody barbequeing on the grill. Scorpios are always reallllly deep, emotional, creative.. and good in bed!!! I'm a scorpio, too, and I've had great luck with Cancers. Like Starting Over again said, I feel safe with them. Things just seem to be free and easy with Cancers. As for Aries...I've always heard that's a terrible match with scorpio.
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I am interested in hearing more Taurus men stories...if anyone has more anecdotes about Taurus men please share. I dated one. In Taurus's defense however, I think he has mad cow disease.
carrot10 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 My brother is a Taurus. He will do anything for the ones he loves but he is VERY stubborn and hard headed. He is kind of a homebody. He likes the very best of everything. He loves with all his heart.
SugarKiss Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I dated one. In Taurus's defense however, I think he has mad cow disease. Ahahaha that was good! I guess that's why you said a lot of them are full of bull-shet, when you said they were cheats and....can't remember the other adjective you used gotta go back and see your other post. :laugh: My brother is a Taurus. He will do anything for the ones he loves but he is VERY stubborn and hard headed. He is kind of a homebody. He likes the very best of everything. He loves with all his heart. Ya that's true they are so stubborn. is your brother wishy washy and takes long to decide on things but then on other things he is totally impulsive and off the cuff? or maybe my ex was just a flake? oh ya I remembered the other adjective Underpants, "child-like" that's been my experience too. child-like indeed.
Meaplus3 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Guys, Felt had to share this. I am a strong believer of zodiac signs and I believe signs compatibility, or lack of it, can make a huge impact in relationships. Being a Scorpion, I have had good success with Taureans, as we share the same good and bad qualities, therefore easily understand one another. Scorpions tend to be jealous and possesive at times, and so are Taureans. We are loyal partners seeking for loyal faithful mates, and only Taureans can provide a Scorpion the same amount of loyalty. Sex.. again only Taureans can measure up to Scorpion urges. I once dated a Virgoan (I already read that Virgoans are perfectionist, something Scorpions are not, and that they may be terrified of Scorpions sexual urges, therefore not a good match), who had this terrified look every time he sees a hint that I may want to have sex. And I'm not a freak or anything, I just like having sex non stop, something like 4 rounds non-stop; not too much to ask, is it? Well, this guy's eyes would bulge out like he has seen death. So, it became annoying that every time we finish sex, instead of cuddling he would go on and on about how tired he was and how I may be too young for him and all (42 yrs in excellent shape, works out everyday! I'm 31) well we eventually broke up. I have had 4 very bad experiences with Geminis; the most troublesome zodiac sign of all. Geminis for me is a no-go area. They like freedom, I like to posses. They never understood why I'm jealous, I wanted them to understand that I'm jealous because I love them. Didn't work. I have reached a point to where, before I decide to date anyone, I have to check my compatibility with their signs, so save myself confusions and heartaches later on. I have settled with a Taurean who doesn't mind when I ask questions, do spy work on him, get jealous or possesive, because he does the same. What I have learned so far: Geminis: scared of commitment, very undecided, have 2 faces, strange people in general Virgoan: scared of sex Taureans: true lovers, loyal and committed. Want something casual, don't date this sign, or mine, for that matter. Thoughts, ideas, criticisms are welcome!! Hmmm. I must admit that I do give the zodiac some credit. I am a Capricorn and pretty much all that is said about a "cappy", has me pegged. Capricorn and Cancer are said to be a perfect match. Guess..I need to find a cancer man. AP:)
BannaBee57 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I'm a cancer. Who should I be dating? Pisces. I only know this because I am a Pisces and apparently the Pisces/Cancer coupling is one of the best matches in the zodiac. Never been with one though so I haven't tested the theory...
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Nearly ALL my best girl friends are sagittarians... Also, Sag's tend to be harsh and blunt, which hurts my sensitive Cancerian feelings. Okay, you two know Sag's. As Ruby said (and as I'm about to prove), we're blunt. As my grandmother used to say, we don't call a spade a spade; we call it a f___ing shovel. Everything I've seen on the 'Net has fifteen different ideas of what we're like, and most of them directly conflict with each other. I know what I am like, but what the hell am I supposed to be like? BTW, Melody, you say know a bunch of female Sag's, most likely also living in Florida? Hmmm...
SugarKiss Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 I'm a cancer. Who should I be dating? apparently scorpios. I have yet to meet a cancer and yet all I hear is good things about cancer/scorpio union... I seem to attract a lot of pisces (which i do lilke a LOT) and libras (not so much lack depth) oh and geminis (on the fence) oh and I get along with leos women really well too but have not had a leo guy I agree on all the virgo traits waaaay too anal for my nature I can't be with an overly structured personality, I hate schedules and love it that way, my mum is a virgo and that's enough structure in my life
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Gosh, I must be driving a Virgo completely crazy at the moment. Good thing I am too aloof to notice.
Meaplus3 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Sugarkiss, That is so dead on about Virgos. Anal.. bigtime. AP:)
SugarKiss Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Sugarkiss, That is so dead on about Virgos. Anal.. bigtime. AP:) oh-oh...are you a virgo? I'm sorry didn't meant to offend you/anyone. I guess I see virgos and I see my mom. I love her to no end and she is my heroine but she is such a perfectionist it drives me batty...and I have seen the same in a few virgo's I have known.
Meaplus3 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 oh-oh...are you a virgo? I'm sorry didn't meant to offend you/anyone. I guess I see virgos and I see my mom. I love her to no end and she is my heroine but she is such a perfectionist it drives me batty...and I have seen the same in a few virgo's I have known. No Virgo here. I have been mixed up with many and see that anal prefectionist side.. and yes batty it can drive one. I was just simply trying to say I agree with the Virgo "anal" trait. AP:)
sally4sara Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Hmmm. I must admit that I do give the zodiac some credit. I am a Capricorn and pretty much all that is said about a "cappy", has me pegged. Capricorn and Cancer are said to be a perfect match. Guess..I need to find a cancer man. AP:)Nah, most say it's Capricorn and Virgo. Or Aries and Sagittarius. But no one adheres to every quality a sign is suppose to have. If a person was a body of water, the zodiac would navigate the first 5' depth and life experience would account for the rest. Like Virgos are suppose to be uptight, cold, overly concern with health and illness, and obsessively neat. None of these describe my partner. Capricorns are suppose to be pretentious, very organized, obsessed with money/status and very jealous. None of these describe me. Notice how each sign of the zodiac will have a page full of qualities ensuring anyone being of that sign will identify with at least a few of them. And horoscopes are always vague enough for anyone wanting to see its forecast.
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 It looks like a have an opportunity to post a funny link.
Meaplus3 Posted June 20, 2008 Posted June 20, 2008 Nah, most say it's Capricorn and Virgo. Or Aries and Sagittarius. But no one adheres to every quality a sign is suppose to have. If a person was a body of water, the zodiac would navigate the first 5' depth and life experience would account for the rest. Like Virgos are suppose to be uptight, cold, overly concern with health and illness, and obsessively neat. None of these describe my partner. Capricorns are suppose to be pretentious, very organized, obsessed with money/status and very jealous. None of these describe me. Notice how each sign of the zodiac will have a page full of qualities ensuring anyone being of that sign will identify with at least a few of them. And horoscopes are always vague enough for anyone wanting to see its forecast. Heres a bit about Capicorn that I had saved from a site when i was looking up astrology. Thought you might find it interesting. I do see your points. AP:) The sure-footed Mountain Goat can climb to higher altitudes than any other mammal. And you sure-footed Capricorns are also well-suited for climbing. Capricorn sets high goals for yourself and then you overcome whatever obstacles may appear between you and the top of your personal mountain. As Capricorn climbs the ladder of success, your ambition pushes you forward. Status can be important to Capricorn and often, at the top of your game, you gain personal satisfaction by knowing that others respect you for what you have accomplished. Capricorn can dance out on the edge of a cliff, but will never fall. Why? Stability plays an important role, but so does practice. As a typical Capricorn, you may appear reckless, but chances are that your actions will have been very well planned, and probably also rehearsed. Capricorn is always calculating what will happen if you do something. You Capricorns are energetically conservative, only expending enough to get you to where you want to be. No silly impulsive actions for you. This is your best insurance to get to the top of the mountain. The Capricorn motto might be Milton Berle's "If opportunity doesn't knock, then build a door." But this doesn't mean that if there are no mountains to climb that you must build the mountain. For you, hardships can be your path to fulfillment, but for the sake of happiness, it would be good for you to learn to appreciate what you have, instead of always striving to reach the next plateau. Element: Earth Earth signs are naturally practical. In this lifetime we are bound to Earth. There is no escaping the reality around us. The Earth is about as real as it gets; it can be felt, weighed and it has substance. Accordingly, the earth signs base their life on what is real, not what is imagined. Sensation is valued over thoughts or feelings. Earth signs live with their feet on the ground. Others seek their advice because of their basic sensibility. For earth signs, seeing is believing. The earth of Capricorn is that of foundation and structure. It's about having a stable base so we don't build our life on shifting sand. Even the great mountains earth, and if it weren't for their foundational integrity, we couldn't climb upon them. Tenth House: Career The Tenth House is the House of the Father. It is where we pursue the outer world, which is often related to our career. This isn't about our personality. It's about how the outer world sees us through the role we play in it. It is here, in the Tenth House, that we look to find out about status and recognition. Key Planet: Saturn Saturn, the ringed planet, is etymologically tied to the word "Satan." But, as demonstrated in the Tarot, the "Devil Card" is not a bad card. It's only difficult if we've made the deal with the devil that we believe the physical world is all there is. Saturn is the planet of boundaries and limitations. If we succumb to those limitations, we are doomed to live within the laws of cause and effect. But if we do the hard work of spiritual practice, we can be rewarded by the wisdom that exists beyond the material plane. As the key planet for Capricorn, Saturn does symbolize that we get what we deserve. Take shortcuts in life and we'll meet up with problems later on. But if we do things with integrity, then the rewards will be ours. Capricorn Greatest Strength: Your ability to overcome obstacles Capricorn Possible Weakness: Too much work and not enough play
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