Shygirl15 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Guys, Felt had to share this. I am a strong believer of zodiac signs and I believe signs compatibility, or lack of it, can make a huge impact in relationships. Being a Scorpion, I have had good success with Taureans, as we share the same good and bad qualities, therefore easily understand one another. Scorpions tend to be jealous and possesive at times, and so are Taureans. We are loyal partners seeking for loyal faithful mates, and only Taureans can provide a Scorpion the same amount of loyalty. Sex.. again only Taureans can measure up to Scorpion urges. I once dated a Virgoan (I already read that Virgoans are perfectionist, something Scorpions are not, and that they may be terrified of Scorpions sexual urges, therefore not a good match), who had this terrified look every time he sees a hint that I may want to have sex. And I'm not a freak or anything, I just like having sex non stop, something like 4 rounds non-stop; not too much to ask, is it? Well, this guy's eyes would bulge out like he has seen death. So, it became annoying that every time we finish sex, instead of cuddling he would go on and on about how tired he was and how I may be too young for him and all (42 yrs in excellent shape, works out everyday! I'm 31) well we eventually broke up. I have had 4 very bad experiences with Geminis; the most troublesome zodiac sign of all. Geminis for me is a no-go area. They like freedom, I like to posses. They never understood why I'm jealous, I wanted them to understand that I'm jealous because I love them. Didn't work. I have reached a point to where, before I decide to date anyone, I have to check my compatibility with their signs, so save myself confusions and heartaches later on. I have settled with a Taurean who doesn't mind when I ask questions, do spy work on him, get jealous or possesive, because he does the same. What I have learned so far: Geminis: scared of commitment, very undecided, have 2 faces, strange people in general Virgoan: scared of sex Taureans: true lovers, loyal and committed. Want something casual, don't date this sign, or mine, for that matter. Thoughts, ideas, criticisms are welcome!!
carrot10 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 My friends always get me to play a game at bars. We go up to guys talk to them for a minute then I guess their sun sign! I am about 95% right in my guesses. I totally believe in the zodiac. I am a true leo and am dating a cancer/gemini cusp!!! I agree with your gemini assesment!
EC Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I have dated a gemini and my brother is Gemini...OMG I def agree with what you said. No-go area for me now. Def weird people to me. lol I have come to find that for me Pisces are too clingy and emotional. I need some type of freedom. Leos- I am a leo and just two Leos don't work for me. We are both too prideful and into ourselves. It's a headache. Though they were a ton of fun. Anyways, I don't really stop dating someone because of their sign or not date them due to their sign..but it's funny how I notice things about them and when I ask them their signs it's like AHA! that explains it lol
underpants Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Funny, The scorpios I've run across are cheaters and liars for the most part. Some are evolved, but ...not really, and that usually takes time and loss. I've never been attracted to this sign romantically. A few Taurus as well, but they aren't as ...diabolical thinking as the little bug. More child like.
Stockalone Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Thoughts, ideas, criticisms are welcome!! I never cared about zodiac signs. For what it's worth though, I am a Virgo (male) and quite a few people (including gf's) have mentioned that I absolutely behave like a Virgo. Oh, about the scared of sex part. That could have been me. Well, not actually scared, but I am certainly not a good match for a woman who constantly wants sex. Someone once told me I am a prudish boy scout, and there is not much to disagree there. I guess I really should read up on zodiac signs.
MalachiX Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I personally think Zodiac signs are a bunch of BS. I'm a spiritual guy and I respect pretty much all religions but, as far as I view the universe, you're not going to convince me that so much of my life is determined by whatever time of year I happen to be born in. I like my successes and screw-ups to be mine. It's the same reason I have issue with those who just say, "don't worry about it, God will provide." I believe in God but I don't think he's just going to live my life for me, nor would I want him/her to. I figure that if there is a kind God out there, perhaps the most he does is give us the opportunities to live up to our potential but it's still our job to actually do it. I think this applies to dating as well.
sally4sara Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I feel that there is something to the whole zodiac thing but I've experienced way too many discrepancies for it to be anything one can count on. I think there are tendencies, but life experience over rules any born tendency. Of the things I've notice as a Capricorn: Libras suck; always looking for the bigger better deal and really don't care about what pain they cause while taking forever to make a decision about what (or who) actually is better. Unfortunately there are more Libras than any other sign because there are more babies conceived on NYE than any other holiday or time of year. Second in the running is Virgo and Scorpio. Virgos cannot not find me interesting. My best friend is a Capricorn and its the same for her all the time. My fiance is Virgo, my ex before him is Virgo, fiance's friends are mostly Virgo or Capricorn. Other than her last BF, my best friend's previous three BFs are virgo. She called me last week to tell me she had a date with....a Virgo; it went well of course. If I'm at a party and there is a guy following me around, 99 percent of the time the guy is a Virgo. So there has to be something to it all, but I still take everyone on a case by case situation. I get annoyed with the idea that one might not deal with someone else based completely on when their birthday happens to be.
Carmen87 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 While I am not a firm believer in the zodiac, I suppose that there are people who do fit in with their sign. I am an Aquarius, and while I do have some of the known characteristics of it I have more that are very unlike the sign. My boyfriend however fits the description extremely well. We get along beautifully. I have dated a Cancer and Virgo, neither were good for me AT ALL. Especially the cancer.
melodymatters Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Yeah, I don't really believe any of it, BUT, there are some interesting personality coincedences ! Nearly ALL my best girl friends are sagittarians, ( as am I ) and three of my most important relationships with were Leo's , two born Aug 1st, and on July 31st. And RIGHT ON unders ! My LL is a Scorpio !
Author Shygirl15 Posted June 19, 2008 Author Posted June 19, 2008 So there has to be something to it all, but I still take everyone on a case by case situation. I get annoyed with the idea that one might not deal with someone else based completely on when their birthday happens to be. Too bad it annoys you, but that's me. Reached that decision based on experiences I have been through. Works out well for me though. I had an experience with a Capricorn, he behaved more or less like a Gemini to me. One minute he says this thing, the next minute it's a totally different thing. Couldn't get anything off the ground. However, I'm told once they get off the ground, they're committed individuals, I'm not sure about this though. My ex-HB is a Libra, and I totally agree with your assessment. Not sure how Scorpions suck though, can you elaborate a bit.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 TOTALLY with you. I'm a Cancer, and Taurus is supposed to be my perfect match, with Scorpio, Pisces, and Virgo behind that. Taurus loves food, music, and everything of the body, just like me. They are also possessive and very loyal, like me. I have only dated one Taurus, briefly, in high school, and we got along fabulously. I am with a Sagittarius now, and OMG, everything the compatibility stuff says is so true. The sexual connection is intense and has never wavered (also helps that my moon is in Sag and his moon is in Taurus), but I definitely want a closer, more connected bond, whereas he likes his freedom and is very restless. I have never felt fully secure in this relationship. They say the struggle with our match is that I will never feel as if I've "caught" him, and it's true. Also, Sag's tend to be harsh and blunt, which hurts my sensitive Cancerian feelings. So true. I am supersensitive, and everything rolls right off his back. I have been with one other Sag seriously, and it was pretty much the same story. Because of these incompatibilities, I am really not sure how lasting this will be. If it does not last, I will totally pay attention to this and seek out a Taurus in the future.
sally4sara Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Too bad it annoys you, but that's me. Reached that decision based on experiences I have been through. Works out well for me though. I had an experience with a Capricorn, he behaved more or less like a Gemini to me. One minute he says this thing, the next minute it's a totally different thing. Couldn't get anything off the ground. However, I'm told once they get off the ground, they're committed individuals, I'm not sure about this though. My ex-HB is a Libra, and I totally agree with your assessment. Not sure how Scorpions suck though, can you elaborate a bit. Wasn't thinking about you when I talked about what annoys me about firm zodiac believers; I went back and re-read your post and I guess it could apply to you too! But I was thinking about this group of friends at a place I had worked about who drove me up the wall talking about how this associate did what they did because they were Leo or that associate acted they way they did because they were Cancer. That girl seemed nice but they'd never date or hang out because they are Sagittarius. On and on with absolutes because of some new age book they read.....it was really too much if you get what I'm saying. It was the only thing they ever talked about. That and effin past lives.
Pluto Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I feel that there is something to the whole zodiac thing but I've experienced way too many discrepancies for it to be anything one can count on. I think there are tendencies, but life experience over rules any born tendency. Of the things I've notice as a Capricorn: Libras suck; always looking for the bigger better deal and really don't care about what pain they cause while taking forever to make a decision about what (or who) actually is better. Unfortunately there are more Libras than any other sign because there are more babies conceived on NYE than any other holiday or time of year. Second in the running is Virgo and Scorpio. Libra Birth dates fall on the month of 23rd of September to 23rd of October. Quite where you got NYE is anyone's guess.
sally4sara Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Libra Birth dates fall on the month of 23rd of September to 23rd of October. Quite where you got NYE is anyone's guess. Math IS hard. P.S. Its a 40 week gestation period for humans.
Pluto Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Either I'm thick or stupid but forty days in Sept or Oct 23rd or anywhere in between would not take you up to 31st of December for gestation to occur. December 2nd would be when the final day of development of uterus. I hope that clears things up.
sally4sara Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Either I'm thick or stupid but forty days in Sept or Oct 23rd or anywhere in between would not take you up to 31st of December for gestation to occur. December 2nd would be when the final day of development of uterus. I hope that clears things up. If a guy and a girl have sex on NYE night, 40 weeks later a baby comes out around Oct. 7th. Some babies are a bit premature and some go a bit past their due date. The doctors did a ultra sound and said my son's development indicated that he had been conceived near the end of January and told me my due date was Oct. 31st.
Pluto Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Right, why didn't you state this earlier, instead of suggesting that Libra falls on the month of December? I used to have a friend who was a Libra and she was perfect in everyway, sadly she was just too talented and fantastic for me and subsequently ditched me as a friend, I wonder if I'll ever see her again, after all Aries and Libra get on flamously well.
audrey_1 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I am an Aries who has had past relationships with Scorpio, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, and Leo. Out of those, Scorpio was certainly the best. I always knew exactly where I stood, and we trusted each other completely. It was a very comfortable match. Virgo was too snobby. Leo was too clingy. I am currently dating a Sagittarius, and we get along well in every aspect, except what someone mentioned about being with a Sagittarius before, not knowing exactly where you stand. Are you or aren't you in a relationship? Just friends? It's anybody's guess.
Author Shygirl15 Posted June 19, 2008 Author Posted June 19, 2008 I am an Aries who has had past relationships with Scorpio, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, and Leo. Out of those, Scorpio was certainly the best. I always knew exactly where I stood, and we trusted each other completely. It was a very comfortable match. Every where I read, it says my best match is Aries, but have not dated Aries just yet, so I'm glad to hear that it actually works. Virgo was too snobby. Very much so, tell me about. Too much obsession with healthy stuff too, geez, can you relax a bit and eat pizza for a change?? Leo was too clingy. and too much pride too..
Author Shygirl15 Posted June 19, 2008 Author Posted June 19, 2008 Oh, about the scared of sex part. That could have been me. Well, not actually scared, but I am certainly not a good match for a woman who constantly wants sex. Someone once told me I am a prudish boy scout, and there is not much to disagree there. My virgo boy lived far, so we used to meet only once in every two weeks, therefore I rarely had a chance to constantly ask for sex. But whenever we met, I surely made him work hard, to compensate for the two weeks we didn't see each other...nothing wrong with that
audrey_1 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Virgo was too snobby. Very much so, tell me about. Too much obsession with healthy stuff too, geez, can you relax a bit and eat pizza for a change?? Just seemed very pretentious and judgmental. Would point out your flaws without consideration for feelings, yet they were "perfect." Expected mountains from you when they may accomplish little. Unrealistic expectations. Rude. Narcissistic. Weird sexual energy. Every where I read, it says my best match is Aries, but have not dated Aries just yet, so I'm glad to hear that it actually works. I feel like I respect individuality/need for freedom as long as I feel it is reciprocated and that I am trusted to live my life. You'll get the same in exchange from me. I want to feel like I'm first, but don't necessarily have to be first. I like engaging conversation, high energy sexual encounters and like to share dominance with my partner in all things. Sometimes I want others to lead; sometimes I want to lead. Basically, it's about true balance. Leo was too clingy. and too much pride too.. Basically sums it up. Our relationship had issues he wasn't willing to truly acknowledge and work on. He preferred to act like all was well, probably the pride thing. He was very jealous and didn't trust me. It was unbearable. I was actually engaged to the Leo, but once these things revealed themselves, I broke it off.
sally4sara Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Unfortunately there are more Libras than any other sign because there are more babies conceived on NYE than any other holiday or time of year. Second in the running is Virgo and Scorpio. I didn't realize THIS was so hard to read.
Author Shygirl15 Posted June 19, 2008 Author Posted June 19, 2008 I didn't realize THIS was so hard to read. Yeah, I know..it's funny.
carrot10 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I'm a little confused as to why pluto is questioning that so many libras are born. If you conceive in Jan. your baby most likely will be born between Sept. 23 and Oct 23. I conceived in Jan and my daughter was born exactly 40 weeks on Oct 12. Anyway.. I agree Leos are very prideful and jealous but we are very generous and loving:)
ThePride&ThePassion Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 I'm a Virgo and I LOVE sex and am definitely not afraid of it! Although, I think we can't only pay attention to the month we were born as the year also has a lot to do with it. Check out the Chinese Zodiac! ;D I'm a Virgo/Monkey and I bet it's my Monkey side that makes me slightly different and could be the reason I'm more sexual than your typical Virgo. I just wish I had a boyfriend who could keep up with me. :laugh:
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