mas21 Posted June 18, 2008 Posted June 18, 2008 ok so i made a huge mistake and its taken me some time to figure that out. Who would ever thought that my first would be the one i see myself with, years later. After i realized i made a mistake and have been trying to catch up, his friend tells me he has a gf... later to find out he is living with her. What do i do, i feel stupid, lost and like a idiot. I hurt the guy badly, whom wanted to follow me to college and probably marry me 4 years ago.. now moved back recently and even for the last yr and half while out of states, realized that what we had was some something different. ahhhhh I feel so stupid and dont know what too do. He reluctantly tells me he lives with his gf when put on the spot and now i am trying to distance myself and let him be happy without me interrupting and causing drama..i went 4 monthes texting him, not knowing this detail and feel bad. this is way harder than i ever thought. I just dont understnad why he never told me he had this gf or that he lived with her. I would of never contacted him to the extent that i have and almost upset with him for replying when he has this other girl. ahhh what do i do??
gummybear Posted June 18, 2008 Posted June 18, 2008 ok so i made a huge mistake and its taken me some time to figure that out. Who would ever thought that my first would be the one i see myself with, years later. After i realized i made a mistake and have been trying to catch up, his friend tells me he has a gf... later to find out he is living with her. What do i do, i feel stupid, lost and like a idiot. I hurt the guy badly, whom wanted to follow me to college and probably marry me 4 years ago.. now moved back recently and even for the last yr and half while out of states, realized that what we had was some something different. ahhhhh I feel so stupid and dont know what too do. He reluctantly tells me he lives with his gf when put on the spot and now i am trying to distance myself and let him be happy without me interrupting and causing drama..i went 4 monthes texting him, not knowing this detail and feel bad. this is way harder than i ever thought. I just dont understnad why he never told me he had this gf or that he lived with her. I would of never contacted him to the extent that i have and almost upset with him for replying when he has this other girl. ahhh what do i do?? How long did you two date for, why did you dump him, how long has it been since the breakup, and how long has he been dating his new gf? I've been in your shoes. Made a huge mistake in hurting the guy I love but unfortunately for me it was too late or too much damage done shall I say.
Author mas21 Posted June 18, 2008 Author Posted June 18, 2008 its been a longgg time, 4 years i have been gone at college. everytime i came home to visit i would try to catch up with him for dinner... I broke up with him for selfish reasons and that he was pressuring me by bring up over and over again about him moving with me, which freaked me out. I didnt wnat him to change his life for me. I wanted to explore on my own bc i was moving to a big city. Anyhow we dated 3-4 years. he is five years older than me, and he should of moved on by now. I think hes either lived with the girl for 4 months or dated her for 4 months but now lives with her. I didnt ask too much detail. Just find it strange he texts me back when shes not around, like at work the next day or when hes out without her. But says she knows we are talking and doesnt care??
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