confusedandempty Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 We broke it off in September 2006 after 10 month relationship. I was gonna end it ... but she beat me to it. Everything was great until like half a month before we broke it off. We just suddenly both got bored in the relationship. She made it clear that we were over and that she didn't love me the way she used too. I went on NC almost immediately but she has never contacted me. Last summer we met while partying and we decided to go for a lunch the day after. The day after the lunch we slept together (nothing sexual) in her tent. That was approximately one year ago. We haven't been in touch since about a week after that. For the past couple of months she has been a frequent guest at my favorite club. We meet there a lot but we don't talk much. I would love to ... but I'm trying to keep my cool (Is she too??). Saturday night I saw her there, but her sister saw me first and pushed her down the stairs so that we wouldn't meet. I just laughed and went somewhere else with my friends. Later that night we met again. Her friend and her sister passed me without a smile. But she stopped and we had conversation for about a minute and a half. Her sister had to pull her skirt to get her moving. I just smiled and said: "maybe I'll see you later tonight". Three hours later I sent her a message. "where are you girls dancing?" and she replied "Off course at (a place) how a about you?". I told her where I was and that I would maybe visit her place later in the evening. I did. When I arrived she pulled my arm and kicked me (friendly). I couldn't hear what she had to say because of the music. So we didn't when I arrived. I went upstairs with a friend but when I came back downstairs her sister came and danced with us (me and my friend). My ex sat on her chair and looked bored. About 40 minutes later she came and asked "how was (the place I was at before)." I said "boring" she smiled and we didn't talk more that evening. I'm such an *******. Long story short: a) Her sister pushed her so that she wouldn't meet me early during the night. b) We met at another club and her sister and a friend (a girl) passed me. My ex stopped and chatted until she got pulled away. c) I sent her a message and I received an answer with a smiley and another question!... d) My ex grabbed me when I arrived and I couldn't talk ... don't hear really well when there is loud music. e) I left the place when it closed. She also left at the same time but we didn't talk after it closed. Don't wanna make too big deal about it. Now a year and a half later I still love that girl to pieces. I have no idea if she has any feelings left but she hasn't been in a relationship since we broke up. Me neither. How can I contact her. What should I tell her. I'm leaving on a S-America trip for 2-3 months next week. Should I contact now or after I get home. Should I maybe not contact at all. I need your advice. I really do need it. Does she have hidden interest. Whenever we meet I try to hide my interest ... is she doing the same?? I need advice... Take care everyone ... take care
sultry33 Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 hi id say the actions from her sister and her friend show theres an interest.. why would they do this if she was not interested.. also she may be guarded.. what have you got to loose with asking her out for coffee.. yes or no? at least you will know then.. good luck x
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