Falcor_The_Trough Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Hi all. Here is the story. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6-7 months. We have gotten very close and have lived together for about 2 months. I still have my own place (thank god) because of the lease. Everything was great until her ex-boyfriend found out she was with someone and started texting her about how much he loves her and cant spend time without her although he never told her this when they were together. The had their moments when they were together but for the most part he ignored her and she wasnt happy. They work together so she has to see him all the time. The first 5 months we dated and he didnt know she was seeing anyone he never once tried to call or get back together with her. She told him that she was happy with me and told him about how he didnt treat her right and about how she is happy now. Well, he became very moody at work and was always depressed and it became a bad work environment. She confronted him about it at work and he told her once again about how he feels "now" and that he just needed some closure. She told me this and I said it would be alright if she went to see him so he could get his closure and maybe things would get better for her at work. I never thought things would turn out like they did when I told her to got and let him get his closure. Well she came back home and told me "I have to be honest with you. I still have feelings for him and I have to give him another chance". This floored me. She has always told me that no one has treated her better than me and how much she loves me. She said that she didnt think it was fair for me that she still had these feelings. So I moved back to my apartment, she helped me move. We left on very good terms with neither of us mad at the other. During the move we talked alot about how if this thing between us was ment to be than she has to do this find out why she is confused. It has only been 4 days since I moved back to my place and we havnt talked since. I mean space was the whole point. I still have alot of hope that she will realize that she wants to be with me and Im not sure if thats healthy. If she calls me sooner or later I know that I will take her back. I love her so much. I should be mad but for some reason Im not. What do you think I should do?
TrustInYourself Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Watch them have sex. That should get your head straight.
Davey McG Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 I think you've got to realise that a woman who behaves like this is not worth your time. She's trying to have her cake and eat it and you're letting her. If you have any self-respect left you should realise that this is completely unacceptable in a relationship. Do not take her back - she's probably already had her fun with him.
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