mortensorchid Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 That guy KEEPS bothering me! I made the mistake of signing onto the Yahoo IM today as visable for the first time in a long time. Don't ask why. I heard from him again, he IMs me saying "Hey you never sign on as visable". It's been six months and he's still taking digs at me! I should explain. I met this guy on line at the beginning of the year. We went out a grand total of three times. I found him vain, self centered and a pretentious blow hard. The majority of our communication was over the IM rather than face or face or on the phone. He sat there and analyzed me all day. I didn't pass his tests for people. I smoke, which is disgusting. I am allergic to cats so I would be uncomfortable in his house. I have faults and I'm not comfortable sharing them with him. Etc. I decided since I already have a father and I already have a shrink, I don't need someone like him trying to be either one and cut him off without a word. He sent me a few emails recently and I have ignored them. He sends me an IM and a text message trying to get back in, but I won't let him. He is RUDE RUDE RUDE! I am fed up!
whichwayisup Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Why don't you block and delete him or make it so you look perminately offline to him? What version of YIM are you using?
SugarKiss Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Why don't you block and delete him or make it so you look perminately offline to him? What version of YIM are you using? I know I was thinking the exact same thing. why is he even still part of your contacts unless you still entertain his attention? delete him. problem solved.
johan Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 He sent me a few emails recently and I have ignored them. He sends me an IM and a text message trying to get back in, but I won't let him. He is RUDE RUDE RUDE! I am fed up! Think that should stop him? I've ignored all your posts, but you keep posting.
carhill Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Benign sociopathy Hey, I like that phrase If this is the first guy to bug you on IM, consider yourself a lottery winner Delete his @ss....
Jilly Bean Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Think that should stop him? I've ignored all your posts, but you keep posting. LOL. Johan... MC - why is that you seem to manifest all kinds of drama around guys that are not contacting you, or are being completely innocent when they do? Like you were tweaking over the "stalker" who is a patron where you suddenly got a job, yet he hasn't even looked your way or said word one to you. And this guy writing you, "hey, you never sign on as visible" is NOT a dig. It is someone who is trying to start a dialogue. But, as the others have said - if you don't want this energy in your life, then why not just delete him in the first place? Me thinks you love to create drama whenever, and wherever you can...
Author mortensorchid Posted June 18, 2008 Author Posted June 18, 2008 I did delete him. He just never looses hope I guess. Loser.
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