ate_the_paint Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 badbrit has a very good point, however... If they just drop a bomb out of nowhere and run off before the dust settles, or; they cheat and lie, or; they keep you on a string post-breakup and play games with your mind, or; all of the above, then; are they really decent people?
ohwhyme Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 yea my ex gave me mixed messages, strung me out for a while. Now she wants to be friends. Does she not have any dignity? Don't even know what we'd talk about, her new boyfriend? Don't want to be the emotional tampon.
Author loomis Posted June 26, 2008 Author Posted June 26, 2008 yea my ex gave me mixed messages, strung me out for a while. Now she wants to be friends. Does she not have any dignity? Don't even know what we'd talk about, her new boyfriend? Don't want to be the emotional tampon. I know what you mean man. They try to talk to you like everything is fine and nothing is a big deal... Just gotta put the foot down and tell them that it's not cool and to just leave you be. I feel amazing, ever since I got all my feelings out and told her to leave me alone and to never contact me again, it seriously, no joke, feels like a million and one pounds have been lifted from me hahaha. Can't forget that one! It's great and you'll be surprised at how much better you'll feel from it.
ohwhyme Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 yea I did that, what a relief. Another chapter of my life closed for good I hope. Its just easier this way. If you have feelings for them just them let them go, they've disappointed you once, and they'll do it again. Talking to them isn't going to help you, they'll string you along talking about their problems and **** even if they do get back together with you. The relationship won't feel the same as you did before all this happened. I guess it doesn't apply to all relationships, depends on how they treat you.
Author loomis Posted June 27, 2008 Author Posted June 27, 2008 I know it's awesome. I love my life now. It's funny cause when I wrote this I was on that pissed off high. Now that i've calmed down I've never felt so much like myself again. It was so nice to get that **** off my chest. There are so many people out there and I'm not worried one bit that I will find her.
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