bigbear25 Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 hey guys thanks for reading here is my scenario: i just met this one girl on the internet and she gave me her number without hesitation after i asked. i texted her and we talked for a little but then she had to go so i said well text me tomorrow if you want. she did txt me yesterday and we talked for about a good three hours before she had to go. after the conversation i felt attached to her and she was almost everything i wanted. so i told her to text me today which she has yet to do that so i am waiting haha. i dont want to text her because she might think i am obsessed or something. do you think she doesnt care about me if she doesnt text me today or what? i dont know what to do next. i need some help. i have never felt this way before.
Enema Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Well that's twice in a row now you've told her to text you. Why don't you make the initial contact? If the conversation went well and you don't have any reason to suspect she wouldn't want to hear from you, go for it.
daphne Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Slow down. You sound obsessed. You haven't even met her. You're letting your fantasies/projections take over. It's not a good idea to get attached to someone you don't really know, and you don't really know her. Ease up, take your time and meet her. Don't be in a rush, because that invariably ends up poorly. Either you'll be so eager and needy that you'll push her away. Or she might be super clingy as well and then you're both in an unhealthy situation. Take a breath and relax. Just get to know her.
Author bigbear25 Posted June 17, 2008 Author Posted June 17, 2008 yeah thats what i thought. i do need to slow down. but i just texted her yesterday and i said well i think we need to meet sooner rather than later and she responded "yeahh deffinitely" so i guess thats cool. how soon do you think we should meet? i dont want to rush it but at the same time i dont want any other guy taking her.
Lucasarts Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 i'd suggest sooner rather than later then once you two actually have a face to face, then you can determine if she really IS everything you hoped/desired for in a future girlfriend. . .
Green Posted June 18, 2008 Posted June 18, 2008 You sound like a teenager who has never had much dating experience. First off I always like to tell girls I'll call them that way I get their number and the controll of calling is in my hands. You should have tried asking her out on a date right off the bat, all this txting is kind of pointless.
Author bigbear25 Posted June 25, 2008 Author Posted June 25, 2008 ok heres an update: she said that im fun, cool, and someone that should be good to have around. Not bad for not even meeting her haha. i remain confident that she could be my future gf. so basically i am going to ask her out really soon as soon as this zit on my nose goes away lol. but i was wondering if its better to go out with a group or just alone and where to go for a date? she is a fun and pretty outgoing girl.
Green Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 Just ask her out already. There is medication that can get rid of your zit that day or atleast stuff you can use to hide it so don't plan your life around that. You should take her out on a date alone unless the only way you can get a date is by being in a group.
Author bigbear25 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 yeah i am going to when she returns from vacation. but recently one of her best girl friends friend requested me on the internet and i asked how she found me and she said that the girl i like told her i was textin her and stuff. so i guess i am generating some buzz around her best friends. is this a good thing?
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Next time a girl gives you a #, be kind enough to call her first. I find that shows the guy is at least interested in taking the time to at least say a hi rather than type in some letters which cost 15cents per message. And you do not get attached to a girl because of her texts. That's just creepy.
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Aslong as you are not rubbing your genitalia over her doorhandles all is well, son.
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