Steffie575 Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Hey guys. Maybe some of you remember me, I posted a bit last year. I had the six year relationship. He broke up with me in October and started dating a new girl right away. Anyways, the last eight months have been pretty good for me. I have been working hard to try and get over it all and move on. I didn't even try to contact him in any way during those eight months. Until last week. I was looking through a massive amount of pictures I have and I of course stumbled upon the pictures I have of the two of us. I began missing him and the next day I caved. I texted him once. No answer. Called once. No answer. Then his new girlfriend texted me and got really angry. It turned into a ridiculous cliche of the two of us fighting. Anyways....through all this I found out they were planning to get married. And that he cares for her child from another guy! Thats when I broke down. I honestly felt like I was back at square one with the whole situation. I cried for days. How can he be getting married??? How could he plan a life with me over six years time and plan the same future with her after eight months? And why will he refuse to just man up and talk to me instead of GIVING his gf my number to text and call me? How rude is that? I feel like I never knew him. Doesn't he have the same memories as me? I think deep down he has to still have some feelings for me if he is scared to even talk to me. To make it worse, he now changed his phone humber. Just from me calling ONCE, people. I feel like I'm going crazy.
inulg Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Hey guys. Maybe some of you remember me, I posted a bit last year. I had the six year relationship. He broke up with me in October and started dating a new girl right away. Anyways, the last eight months have been pretty good for me. I have been working hard to try and get over it all and move on. I didn't even try to contact him in any way during those eight months. Until last week. I was looking through a massive amount of pictures I have and I of course stumbled upon the pictures I have of the two of us. I began missing him and the next day I caved. I texted him once. No answer. Called once. No answer. Then his new girlfriend texted me and got really angry. It turned into a ridiculous cliche of the two of us fighting. Anyways....through all this I found out they were planning to get married. And that he cares for her child from another guy! Thats when I broke down. I honestly felt like I was back at square one with the whole situation. I cried for days. How can he be getting married??? How could he plan a life with me over six years time and plan the same future with her after eight months? And why will he refuse to just man up and talk to me instead of GIVING his gf my number to text and call me? How rude is that? I feel like I never knew him. Doesn't he have the same memories as me? I think deep down he has to still have some feelings for me if he is scared to even talk to me. To make it worse, he now changed his phone humber. Just from me calling ONCE, people. I feel like I'm going crazy. what a jerk! he sounds like he was scared or something, or like he cares about your feelings, but as a friend, and not as your ex-boyfriend--so hes ashamed...? just let this be another reason why he wasnt worth any more waste of your time! i'm so sorry about all this! i dont understand how these things happen... why is it the longer you date someone its usually the less they want to get married? (for me at least)
Citizen Erased Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Don't contact him again. To his girlfriend you are the ex, that is always a touchy subject. He obviously does not want anything to do with you. You can ponder the reasons all you like, but in the end you are no longer together and he has every right not to take your calls, or change his number.
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