GimpKid7590 Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 All right. Me and my friend liked this girl before and when I liked her first and then he started liking her and when I asked him to back off he said no. This time he started liking another girl and now I kinda like her. But its not just payback that I want to get with her, but I just want to get with her. Im 15 and I need advice on how to be agressive with my friend to get that girl. So if anyone has any suggestions on how I could get her before he does plz help. PS: He just talks, the girl needs to flirt with him, he never flirts with the girl. So if this helps then here u go
PeopleLearner Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Why are you concerned what your friend does? There may be many, many more guys who like her and flirt with her without you even knowing about it. What matters is how you go about it, and not what others are doing. What are you doing about your liking?
Author GimpKid7590 Posted June 16, 2008 Author Posted June 16, 2008 last time I focused on trying to get him to stop liking her which caused me to not get the last girl thats why now Im just focusing on her
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Standing rule among my crew was as follows: If you meet her in a bar, you've got 15 minutes to make a move.If you meet her at school/work, you've got two weeks.Don't date a buddy's ex without his go-ahead.Don't date a buddy's sister without his go-ahead.Don't ask out a buddy's Big Crush*. No matter what. Once the time lapsed, she became fair game again. Violating rules 1, 2 or 3 resulted in the offended party getting a free pass on the same category of offense (eye for an eye). Violating rule 4 resulted in a beating. Violating rule 5 resulted in being ostracized for life. If you can't stay away from the one sole chick that your buddy's pining over incessantly, you're no friend. GK, as to your question, she's fair game. He didn't give you a fair chance at the first girl, even though you followed protocol. If you like this second girl, I say go for her with both barrels blazing. Your friend will whine and cry like a five year old with a scraped knee, but that's his problem. Good luck! As to how to get her, that depends on the girl. What's she into? That'll dictate how you make your move. *Big Crush: that one girl that, no matter what, he'd drop what and whoever he was with at the moment if she so much as batted an eyelash at him. First one to declare had rights.
Author GimpKid7590 Posted June 17, 2008 Author Posted June 17, 2008 Holy **** thank u. I kept telling my friends he gave me no chance before but they just kept saying broes before hoes. So im ganna just forget my friend and go for her. The only problem now is getting to her, more than he does. Ill go on my own for now but if any1s got any nfo on how to make her focus on me more than him plz help
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Hey, I'm all for bros before hoes. However, this other guy showed he doesn't buy into it one little bit. It's not like he asked out a girl that he didn't know you liked. He actively went after her, even after you asked for the go-ahead. I don't know about you, but any man who would do that is no Brother of mine. In the 'how to get her' department, there are two things you need to do: Relax. Most 15 year olds are completely wound up in how they're perceived. If you relax, be yourself, and don't care about how you're seen by the world, you'll wind up being the cool, confident guy.Figure out what her thing is, and see what you can do with it.Is she a preppy chick who digs the social parties?Is she the bookworm who gets off on a guy who has read Tolstoy?What's she like? What have you seen her do?Does she drive? If so, what car? The trick is to make yourself more memorable from the other guys (step 1) and find some way to connect with her on an emotional level (step 2).
Author GimpKid7590 Posted June 17, 2008 Author Posted June 17, 2008 My god, thanks man. But the last problem is that shes prude and my "friend" is overconfident and egotistical cuz he thinks hes "hot" and that hes ganna change her being prude. I mean shes outgoing but she wont kiss or makeout. So I wanna get with her but not just be called bf&gf but actuall be bf&gf
PeopleLearner Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Standing rule among my crew was as follows: If you meet her in a bar, you've got 15 minutes to make a move.If you meet her at school/work, you've got two weeks.Don't date a buddy's ex without his go-ahead.Don't date a buddy's sister without his go-ahead.Don't ask out a buddy's Big Crush*. No matter what. Nice set of rules.
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