He used me,But I don't know how to move on. He still calls and mess me up

[sweetsnowwhite]

Hi

 

I have been seen this guy for a year. He keeps saying that he likes me and then the next day he doesnt even call or txt or anything. I really love him. Therefore I go back to him whenever he calls, txts or emails me. I dont know how to walk away. All my friends say that he's using me. But when we do hang out together he acts in a very caring manner and then afterwards he won't talk to me for days (normally 4 or 5) and then he wants to be with me again. I want to walk away. But I just don't have the energy to do so. I dont wanna go and meet him everytime he wants me to. It really hurts because I really care about him loads and I think I'm madly in love with him. Im a very well established girl with a career and everything. I dont know why I keep going back to him. I want to stop. He keeps emotionally abusing me and I let him. How do I stop? please I really need to get out of this mess

[SarahT111]

OMG this happened to me also!

 

You HAVE to walk away now. I dont care how hard it is but you HAVE to go. You are going to get sooooo hurt if you stay around!!!

This guy is using you and eventually he will find someone else and toss you out and destroy you.

 

I know it hurts but you HAVE to walk away from this guy. Staying with someone who has such little regard for your feelings is so unhealthy and only ruining your self esteem. The relationship with this guy IS going to end. Think about how you want that to happen. Do you want to be the bigger person and walk away unharmed? Or do you want to wait around, see if he changes his mind and get destroyed when he ditches you for someone else?

Please walk away!!! Im so worried that you will get hurt as exactally the same thing happened to me and it was very nasty and hurtful when he walked away with someone else. I wsh someone had given me the courage to walk away before I got hurt but no1 did and I got deeply hurt.

And besides even if he does change his mind do you really want to be with somone that you had to 'force' to like you?

 

Let go of this guy and walk away. There are a billion better men out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve. I know its hard but you have to do it.