christian_gal Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Hello all! I’m new to Love Shack. Glad to be a part of the community! Well, I just started doing some online dating. I am talking with a few guys I'm interested in. My question is this: What are some signs that a man likes you online? Are the signals any different than face-to-face relationships? Thanks for your thoughts.
Suiyobi Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I think it's the same whether online or face-to-face, the only difference is that you won't see any body language if it's online. But you'll definitely see more verbal hints. Us guys are pretty easy to figure out so you shouldn't have a problem noticing when we're interested.
Starting Over Again Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 He asks questions about you. To the point of annoyance (if you didn't like him) but since you say you do, trust me you should know it. -what u doing this week? -hey do you like sushi? -how many bros and sis you have? -hey!!! how r u? -etc etc
Lizzie60 Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Hello all! I’m new to Love Shack. Glad to be a part of the community! Well, I just started doing some online dating. I am talking with a few guys I'm interested in. My question is this: What are some signs that a man likes you online? Are the signals any different than face-to-face relationships? Thanks for your thoughts. I think it's basically the same thing.. but not quite.. meaning that online ..he still hasn't seen you.. but once you meet face to face..then if he's really interested.. he'll let you know .. and he will pursue you... happens every time.. Online is quite abstract.. unreal..
Author christian_gal Posted June 16, 2008 Author Posted June 16, 2008 Okay. Thanks for the replies. So, he will make it very clear, ask lots of questions (which he does), and he will pursue me. He has not really said "I'm interested or I like you." But, according to his actions he is saying something else. I'm sure the frequency of messages can also tell if he is interested too, right?
Shygirl15 Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 I have done online dating for quite sometime now and I can say that, as much as it's a very interesting way of meeting a variety of people, it can be a bit confusing sometimes. So, first, on the cues; the frequency of emails obviously mean he's interested, and he'll ask lots of questions. Most would not openly admit to 'liking you' at this stage. After something like 4 emails, they may give you their numbers to call. But you'll get a clear idea on who they are and if they're really interested once you start speaking on the phone. Several times, I changed my mind on guys that I thought were interesting, the minute I spoke to them on the phone. But again, be prepared; some will send 2 or more emails showing some serious interest, then vanish into thin air. It's just strange.
americanrevgirl Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 You know, your post just had me laughing so hard I cried, because I encountered a situation you brought to mind. If they are interested, they'll im or write you, and ask for your phone number & get up with you. If that doesn't happen within, say, a few weeks, I think it's a good signal they are not interested.
Art_Critic Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 He asks questions about you. To the point of annoyance (if you didn't like him) but since you say you do, trust me you should know it. -what u doing this week? -hey do you like sushi? -how many bros and sis you have? -hey!!! how r u? -etc etc I'm with StartingOver.. it is all about the questions they ask.. Also.. If any of the questions include sex or swapping nude pictures then he isn't interested in you.. he is only looking to wet his noodle. that includes any emails he might send you later on before you meet.. if sex is a topic or he wants phones sex etc.. then he isn't interested.
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