GuttedEnglishBloke Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I've gone 4 weeks NC. Today I'm seriously tempted to view her facebook profile. Please convince me otherwise? Please?
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Don't do it. Delete yourself off of her facebook and put her on ignore that way you won't be tempted. NO good can come of you looking at her profile! It'll only make you feel sad, bad and miss her more. Hang in there, this will pass soon...
PhoenixFromTheFlames Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 DON'T DO IT! You know how much that upset you the last time you looked. Don't put yourself through it again, no good will come of it. You know that there will only be happy pictures on there. No one uses their profile to display how miserable their lives are. She may not be as happy as facebook will make it look, but that's the image that will be burned into your brain. You don't need to see it. Block yourself from it. Do something else. You can do it, you've managed 4 weeks.
kizik Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Yeah I think you should delete yourself and maybe send her a quick text or email saying it's simply what you have to do, for you. No hard feelings etc. Just so she knows you don't hate her (unless you do).
Author GuttedEnglishBloke Posted June 15, 2008 Author Posted June 15, 2008 Thankfully the urge has passed. She's not on my friends list, but we are on the same network. Won't do it. It'll only cause a sleepless night. Thanks all.
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Yeah I think you should delete yourself and maybe send her a quick text or email saying it's simply what you have to do, for you. No hard feelings etc. Just so she knows you don't hate her (unless you do). No, that's breaking NC and there's no point in him sending her a note.
Author GuttedEnglishBloke Posted June 15, 2008 Author Posted June 15, 2008 Crazy how you can feel fine one minute and then ache for her the next isn't it? The memories have almost faded too. Can't really remember what she sounds like. It's only been 6 weeks. So sad.
GodofNietzsche Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I totally agree with whichwayisup. Do what you have to do. Some people see blocking someone as immature. I think people take facebook too seriously.
Trialbyfire Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Delete your facebook profile and get away from the temptation if you can't control yourself. Stay far, far away.
wareagle Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Don't do it homie, don't do it, you come along way in 4 weeks why set yourself back? I can honestly say it get's easier as time goes by! Trust me on that!!!
vivrantflo Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Just block her.. it's as simple as that. Go to your privacy settings, and type in her name to block her profile.. That way, you can't see her page and vice versa.. unless you make the effort to go back into your settings and unblock her. If you don't block her, then you must enjoy self torture.. cause there's no reason to be looking at her profile page. You're just gonna hurt yourself.
Author GuttedEnglishBloke Posted June 16, 2008 Author Posted June 16, 2008 I didn't look. Thanks for your support.
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