naini Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I met this guy a year or year and a half back online (same country), and we've been great friends ever since. We chat late nights and tell each other all of our problems, or basically whatever one would do with you're really good and close friends. I've always had this little crush on him since then too. we are so similar, and he's a great person tio know. however recently he told me that he's been having feelings for me since the turn of the new year and as I told you, I had always found myself attracted to him, though I went out with another guy from my grade for 3 months. He's not forcing me into anything at all. he's told me to think about it without any sort of a pressure, and he said he's going to pop the question, only when he comes to meet me, for the first time, next year after my final exams, since this year is very crucial to me academically. he's 22 and a half and i turned 16 in April. I really don't know what I should be doing, since he's almost like the perfect guy Ive known and he really likes me a lot, and him liking me is like this dream come true. also, the issue is that he'll be shifting abroad soon, though he's to come back to the country very often regularly. please help me decide what decision I should take.
carhill Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 All cultures are different, but I would suggest growing up a bit more. At your age, such a disparity in age and life experience can work against you. If by "the question", you mean marriage, then it's time to talk to your parents. I'm sure they're going to have an opinion here
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