Kman21 Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 So i have checked my ex's myspace lately, she has moved on with a new guy. Anyways it says "im with the most wonderful guy ever", when I read that I really felt low, like a worthless piece of sh**. When we were together she said I was wonderful also. . I mean I know that there will be other girls that would love my characteristics and personality. But I sometimes I just feel so low... like I am not wanted.
kizik Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Anybody who posts that sh*t knowing their ex probably checks the MS is pretty rude. She's gotta know you look at her page sometimes. Yep, you were wonderful, he's wonderful, every guy in her future will be wonderful! This girl sounds inconsiderate to me. Be glad it's over bro! And yes, there are many girls out there who love intelligent sensitive dudes such as ourselves. Don't worry about that. The key is getting used to being single again, and not letting your ego bruise too badly because of how "wonderful" SHE was.
casey001 Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I couldnt agree more, its such a nasty thing to do and she probably just wants a reaction out of you. Be the bigger person and don't react. Be thankful that your not with someone who has the ability to be that cruel and immature. You could do alot better, you just haven't come across it yet so don't believe it, but trust me its out there
borelandkaren Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 So i have checked my ex's myspace lately, she has moved on with a new guy. Anyways it says "im with the most wonderful guy ever", when I read that I really felt low, like a worthless piece of sh**. When we were together she said I was wonderful also. . I mean I know that there will be other girls that would love my characteristics and personality. But I sometimes I just feel so low... like I am not wanted. Don't look at her myspace page, matey. This is always going to be a recipe for disaster. You know, the truth of the matter is that when we are all with someone, they are the most wonderful person ever. We ALL say this but time into the relationship and history do funny things to the memory. Don't take it on board. Just remember that a few months into things, when the honeymoon is over, baby, the gloss will be go off this relationship for her and she will look at him in his true light. There will be lots of other girls who love you for who and what you are. Look for them. They're out there, waiting for a lovely boy who will treat them as they want to be treated. With love and respect. Don't sell yourself short. Just because this one didn't turn out to be who you hoped she'd be, doesn't mean there isn't someone else just around the corner. Open yourself up to ALL possibilities. The one you think isn't "THE ONE" just may turn out to be perfect for you. I've personally had 4 "THE ONES" and guess what? None of them have been. I haven't shut out the possibility of being with anyone else ever again. It just means my choices will be a lot wiser. Good luck and take care, darl.
Trialbyfire Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I doubt any of it was deliberate on her part. She can't know that you would look for certain. I do agree that whomever is in their lives at the moment, will always be wonderful, particularly during the honeymoon period of their relationship. This is no reflection on who you are. You know who you are, don't you? If not, time to take a good hard look at what your positives traits are and realize that you have much to give someone else who can appreciate it.
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