smartgirl Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Yesterday was the 3rd anniversay of the first time H and OW crossed the line into PA. It was on my mind, but I was determined not to talk about it and to make things as nice for us as possible. Had a wonderful evening and he kept kissing me - cheek, hand, shoulder, whatever, all through the night and this morning. Sigh. I know this course of action, ie not talking about it, is the best for both of us at this point in time. I just wish I could erase the thoughts of him wanting someone else from my mind. I know he doesn't now, but it is still hard to deal with. I just needed to say this to someone. Thanks for listening.
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 It was probably on his mind as well, which is why he kept reassuring you with kisses, cuddles and affection. Try to focus on the good stuff and the fact he IS trying hard and has proved to you that he made a very bad mistake. I know, easier said than done. Hope tomorrow you feel better and this stuff isn't in your head as much.
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