Sheekie Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. But sometimes I worry that he's not happy or completely satisfied with the relationship. How do I know this? That's the problem. I'm not sure if it's my gut instinct or my head playing horrible tricks with me. I do tend to worry about things that haven't happened and mull over stupid things. I guess part of my fear is based on the fact that the "honeymoon is over." For half of the relationship we were living apart and our time together was limited. He expressed his affections for me liberally. However, now we live together and he isn't as affectionate as he used to be. My paranoid self equates that to not being happy with the relationship. Argh, my mind is all messed up. Any help?
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 The first thought to my mind with the decrease in affection is not due to him being unhappy - it's more likely that he just feels comfortable with you now. Like the chase is over because you two live together, now. I certainly would not recommend asking him at all if he's happy with the relationship. You'll only make the guy paranoid. I know it's not easy to relax just because somebody told you to, but that's the only advice I can think of. LOL
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