Author fetish Posted July 5, 2008 Author Posted July 5, 2008 well, just thought i'd give an update. She texted me last week saying: "I just want you to know that it hurts me to my heart that we broke up over some change. I think you wanted out anyway. I wish you the best and i'm going to come over to get the rest of my things." We ended up talking face to face. She said she would like to try to work things out. I told her my issues and she said that she would respect my things and ask before helping herself to them. She also said that her attitude has been different because I haven't proposed to her after 5 years. She was also saying that I didn't even seem effected by the break-up. She said, "You look happier than ever." Truth is, i've lost 10 lbs from not being able to eat. She said that the breakup was effecting her mentally, she said she even contemplated suicide which scared the hell out of me. Anyway, after talking, we agreed to try to work it out. I feel I kind of owe it to myself because 5 years isn't something you can just sweep under the rug. I am going to observe her behavior though. The problem is though, i feel somewhat weak for taking her back, but at least I did let her know what the boundaries are.
Ssheena Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 Just go slow and watch your money. One one hand she tried to put stuff on you.. ie I think you wanted out anyway and then she comes back and says, you didn't propose after 5 years and then she drops the bombshell guaranteed to get a reaction, the suicide one. Where is the, I know I made a mistake and I'm sorry? in this...? I hope you let her know your boundaries are crossed when she takes things from you without asking. That has got to stop. You are not her "sugar-daddy" and you are not responsible for her pocket money. Keep your eyes open going forward. Keeping my fingers crossed for you.
Author fetish Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 Just go slow and watch your money. One one hand she tried to put stuff on you.. Keep your eyes open going forward. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. I appreciate your words and I am going very slow on this. I'm mainly going to continue to focus on bettering my own life and career. She and I can try this over again a thousand times but God has the final say. Like i said before, I'm just going to put my focus where it belongs... on my career.
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