mattizz Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Sorry for the long post, hope you can comment though. Me and my ex broke up about a year ago we was together for 4 ½ years prior to that. Mainly split because of her insecurities and I had taken her for granted. After about 8 months of no contact just a txt from me wishing her a happy birthday we got back together briefly for around 3 weeks which was perfect but then she ended because she asked me where I saw myself in 3 years I said, house and possible babies but the problem was I didn’t mention her! We agreed to take things slowly and I thought if I said marriage, house and baby with her she would run a mile, so it sort of backfired. The confusing part, we have been split again for about 4 months and no contact for that time. I keep bumping into her sis on nights out and she keeps telling me to sit down and talk to her. Her mum called me at work this week asking me to sort things out saying she still has pictures up of us together and she cried when her sis told her I still love and think about her everyday (which I did say to her sis whilst drunk). She is with someone else now, but why are her mum and sis saying these things to me? I haven’t spoke/txt my ex in 3 months. I still love her and would love her back but if she isn’t interested I don’t want to bother her, the impression I got from her mum and sis is that she still loves me. Thanks for taking the time to read, much appreciated.
frd150 Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Hey Matt, Sounds like you need to take Mom and sis out of the equation and go to her yourself. I was with my ex for around 3 years and we have been broken up for over a year. She has contacted me (alot) up until about a week ago but like you said if she was or is not interested in getting back then Im not going to bother and have not thus far. You are getting much better intel on the situation, intel that would have me personally talking to her. Just go for it but prepare yourself for what happens either way.
BillClam Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 I agree in the way that you need to go straight to the source. I wouldn't recommend being overly dramatic though, tread lightly.
sin35 Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 sounds to me like she's afraid of rejection so she dates losers. go talk to her and tll her personally exactly how you feel! it WILL get her back i can garanty it! if you want something, go for it! she's obviously still in love with you and her mother and sister know this, she's too afraid to comtact you personally since you might reject her and hurt her. she knows how she feels, so do you, so what you waiting for?
tommiw Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 I agree with other replys, but the part where you say that she is seeing someone else confuses me. Why would she want to date others if you're the one she truly loves and you love her the same? Seems kinda odd to me.
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