MaxManwell Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 I feel sad. How do I get a girl to want to be my girlfriend ??
jerbear Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 I feel sad. How do I get a girl to want to be my girlfriend ?? Talk to her, ask her out to do things, ask her to stay over one night, chat, do, talk, have the talk, then it just happens. Honestly, just be yourself, don't compromise on your dreams and aspirations to get a girl. You have to be happy and yourself first.
dreamergrl Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 -Listen to what other posters say when give you advice. -Lose the crappy attitude you have on woman. -Don't act as if they are below you. -Don't build up expectations from a new girl based off the paid girls So many posters have tried to explain these things to you, but you have yet to listen or take advice. People have tried to help, but I don't think you want help. You want attention.
Author MaxManwell Posted June 14, 2008 Author Posted June 14, 2008 When you say it just happens. I never used to be able to make friends as in a group of friends to hang out with b.c I never knew how. Once I learned how it was so easy to do. 'it just happens' now i have lots of friends. Is that similar ?
SugarKiss Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 When you say it just happens. I never used to be able to make friends as in a group of friends to hang out with b.c I never knew how. Once I learned how it was so easy to do. 'it just happens' now i have lots of friends. Is that similar ? yes that is excatly it. learn to be friends with women, if you learn to see them as human beings instead of a means to your own happiness or pleasure there is a good chance you can also win them over. let women discover what a great human being you really are. I don't buy all the hate talk deep down you are not a bad I guy, I can sense that but your extrenal negative attitude will scare women away and that anger you carry will show. the problem I see Max, and don't take this the wrong way and you may have your reasons for being this way but you have a very flippant attitude towards women one day you want them the next day you despise them and have some deep seated anger towards them. and you cannot build any sort of healthy relationship with another human being if you hold so much resentment towards them. so learn to let go some of that anger, how you do that is by changing your attitude. everytime you allow an angry comment or thought to consume your mind that goes against most women you just fuel that gap that is preventing you from getting closer to what you want. so learn to look for the positive even when you can't seem to see any. look for positives and focus on those you will be amazed how your attitude will attract the right kind of attention. And don't be afraid of turning into the dreaded "mr nice guy" I've seen enough of your comments so I doubt you would ever be that, you have too much of an edge for that so don't worry about losing your edge because you are "nice" it's ok to be nice if you are smart about it this is not going to happen overnight, so be prepared to hit your head on the wall many times until it feels natural but practice does make prefect and if what you truly want is to have a healthy loving relationship as you absolutely deserve to have, then persistence and focus will get you there. but it has to start with attitude.
Pluto Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Feeling sorry for yourself doesn't help you gain a girlfriend, if anything it repel any woman who might be interested in you. Changing your attitude and generally being content with yourself and the things you do will be more appealing to women. When a person is content with themselves, they become naturally confident and give off a feel good factor vibe in terms of body language. I used to be downbeat, miserable and unhappy with my life and my appearance, and perspective on things, so I gradually made the appropriate changes and I have just attracted a girl who I thought wouldn't cast eyes on me in a million years. I know, I sound like an advertisement, but making the appropriate changes has worked for me.
christian_gal Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 I believe all great romantic relationships start with friendship. So, meet new people. Be friendly. Mingle. When you find a woman you like show your interest, not just verbally but also through your actions. Don't force relationships, let them happen naturally. Finally, I think it is important to remember that it is not necessarily about finding someone, but becoming a person others would like to be with. While you are still single it is a great time to work on yourself-- you know prepare yourself for future long-term relationships or marriage.
Author MaxManwell Posted June 16, 2008 Author Posted June 16, 2008 The girl of my dreams... I just met her new boyfriend.. AND HE LOOKS JUST LIKE ME Tall, dark and handsome .. exactly the same as me only different. I'll add this to the pile of things to regret and disappoint. I am so jealous ! I hate him. Why not me ? Why can't I be the successful one for a change ? it could so easily have been me, why did she do this to me !!!!!
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