alexg Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 I've written before asking advice on my husband 23 years, finding out about secret long phone intimate emails and he always said it was just friendship someone to talk to. Guess what...I just found out he slept with one of his employee's 20 times!!! I called her in poland and she told me the whole truth, i've been vomiting ever since, because she was a year older than my daughter. He still denies in counseling, because i taped it and while the tape was playing he was pulling his skin on finger until bleeding then blotting them on post it notes and making paper airplanes. I gave him a chance to confess by the way (she became christian and asked for forgiveness) then after he wouldn't confess i went his business (a night club) took out my lipstick and wrote all over the glass "...." is a cheater!!! we started to see an attorney because i want a divorce , but he doesn't gee i wonder why maybe because he was the first and only man i've been with and raised his four children in a what i thought was a happy home. I feel so sick inside, so empty so foolish!!!! oh and his lover told me that he said after the kids started arriving I was less interested in sex. We made love at least 3 times per week!! yes sometimes i was tired, but that happens I have 4 c-sections for this bastard!!! and I want to talk to him but nothing can come out of my mouth other than sick "f..." I need some intelligent people to help me put some words together, give him a piece of paper to read and go screw himself..
MichelleS1983 Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Quite honestly, he sounds like a pervert, a pig, and a nutjob. Just pray your offspring didn't inherit his obviously shallow-end-of-the-gene-pool DNA. What advice do you want? How to forgive a pig who rules his life by his d*ck? How to forgive a pervert who has sex with little girls a year older than his daughter? If you've been married 23 years, I'm going to assume your daugher is around 21ish - which means this slob was dipping his wick in a 21 or 22 year old GIRL. What a pig. God knows what diseases this slimebag has brought home with him. Don't touch him even with your worst enemy's genitals.
theobserver Posted June 17, 2008 Posted June 17, 2008 Nothing much left to say. Get a divorce and get everything you can out of this piece of **** of a husband. Move on with your life. Considering your children are old enough make sure they know the situation not so they resent him (they will anyway) but because just judging by his personality and attitude I'm sure he'd love to turn them against you and rethink your judgement. You seem to have a level head. Damn I feel so badly for you, I don't understand how my fellow men can behave like this, to the mother of his own children? Gotta love people finding faith and seeking forgiveness though eh, if she never would of fessed up you would of never known you have been set free. I wish you the best of luck and happiness from this point on.
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