Mimic Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Hi, I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. About 2 weeks ago, we had sort of a fight and didn't talk these past weeks. I tried to call her, but didn't get an answer, so I guessed she wouldn't talk to me anymore. I was ok with that, as I had been thinking about breaking up with her because, believe it or not, we were TOO much alike. We are both quiet people and when we were together we barely have anything to say to each other and I found myself thinking about the time she would leave for her place. We did date a few years ago, when I was in my high school senior year, again it didn't last. Now she called me to get together and talk. How can I tell her, it's kind of sudden and I have not time to get my ideas straight.
ianandris Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 If it's too sudden, and you need more time, tell her that. Don't go into it unprepared. Take the time you need, then give her the time she asks for. Figure it out. But I'll tell you what, if you don't like being with her, you need to let her go.
borelandkaren Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 Hi, I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. About 2 weeks ago, we had sort of a fight and didn't talk these past weeks. I tried to call her, but didn't get an answer, so I guessed she wouldn't talk to me anymore. I was ok with that, as I had been thinking about breaking up with her because, believe it or not, we were TOO much alike. We are both quiet people and when we were together we barely have anything to say to each other and I found myself thinking about the time she would leave for her place. We did date a few years ago, when I was in my high school senior year, again it didn't last. Now she called me to get together and talk. How can I tell her, it's kind of sudden and I have not time to get my ideas straight. You need to get this sorted out. Be honest. It's the only way. U never know, this may be what she wants to talk to you about, as well. Good luck.
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