mas21 Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 so my ex says we should meet up next week now that i actually moved home after graduating. Well it turns out that i found out he has a gf from another friend and last night he called me and i asked him when we were both drunk who he lives with and it turns out to be her. I was like oh how long have you too dated and i believe he said 4 months and i find it strange that they already live together. Anyhow, does she know that i have been contacting him to hang out and he replies alot?? does she know that hes gonna go out to dinner or drinks with me? I mean i dated the guy for 3-4 years in hs and he is 5 years older than me. I broke up with him before i left for schoool because he was being too pushy about moving with me. Any thoughts??? what do i do? because i want to catch up but am not sure what his gf knows. I would never do anyhting with him knowing he is dating something point blank. I even suggested her coming too and me meeting her... Which would be very awkward but i put it out there
nittygritty Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 It doesn't sound like that situation benefits you in any real way. Why not focus on moving on? Regardless of how long the two of you were together, he's living with someone else. It would be awkward for all of you to go to dinner together and so unnecessary. Since specific plans weren't made to meet and you now know that he lives with his girlfriend, just tell him you can't make it.
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