Strawberry Cane Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 Hey all, This is a weird question, but I was kind of spooked by something my new boyfriend casually mentioned to me recently. He told me one day while we were driving down the highway that when hes alone he sometimes beats off while hes driving on the highway. Then about a week later he told me that he had parked his car up in the middle of nowhere to beat off. Does this sound strange to anyone else? I know it's not the ONLY place he pleasures himself... but seriously... What's going on here? Who beats off while sitting in their car by their self?
Krytie TV Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 I've done both myself, though some would say I'm very creepy.
2sunny Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 i've seen this several times while driving... i don't think it's that out of the ordinary... if you pay attention to cars around you.
Suiyobi Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 I guess the guy needs to relieve some stress and tension... but personally, I'm able to hold it off until I get home. Self-control is key.
BrooklynBridge Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 I think he is just trying to unconsciously suggest that he really wants you to give him a hummer while you guys are together and he's driving........
endlesstrains Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 Well it's kind of weird but he's probably doing it because of the risk/thrill, not because he can't wait or because he has to. It's a lot more exciting to have sex somewhere unusual, right? Well I imagine it's the same for masturbating.
Krytie TV Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 Sometimes you just have to rip one off when the urge strikes.
SugarKiss Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 doesn't sound weird, sounds like he may be a bit of an exhibitionist/voyeur/thrill seeker, that is what masturbation is about and people get off on different things. now if you said the guy parks his car at an elementary school and does that I'd be concerned and disgusted, but that's just me. you know though, if you think it's odd and it bothers you then reconsider if you want to be with a guy that has this sort of sexual kink. you have every right to be turned off and even disgusted by his behaviour and he has every right to enjoy his own kink and not have to make excuses for himself, now does that mean you are a good match for each other sexually, no not necessarily but that is what dating is for, it's to find out if you connect on every level.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 My boyfriend told me he once masturbated on an airplane, IN THE SEAT, on his way to visit me, back when we were long distance. I was like, "You couldn't wait till you got here?!" And he says, "I was too worked up!" I thought it was a little weird, but I love his high sex drive, so who am I to judge? I've since learned that he is very turned on by sex in unusual and somewhat public places. I think it's hot that every time we go out, he puts a condom in his pocket just in case.
Author Strawberry Cane Posted June 13, 2008 Author Posted June 13, 2008 Thanks all for your insight, now if you said the guy parks his car at an elementary school and does that I'd be concerned and disgusted, but that's just me. NO NO! If that was the case, I would be gone in a second. He said private spot like way on the outskirts of town, where there was no one around. I am pretty open to sexual experiences, but I know when to draw the line... I love the fact that he has such a fantastic sex drive... but it was just something I never heard of before. I have to say, he does want to do sexual things in his car.... he seems to find it really sexy. I think he's got an "in car" fetish.
Author Strawberry Cane Posted June 13, 2008 Author Posted June 13, 2008 Yeah, because it is strange! Listen to your gut. Why would he have to drive out to the middle of nowhere in order to obtain his five finger action when he has a girlfriend like you to help release him?? I was working.
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 My boyfriend told me he once masturbated on an airplane, IN THE SEAT, on his way to visit me, back when we were long distance. I was like, "You couldn't wait till you got here?!" And he says, "I was too worked up!" I thought it was a little weird, but I love his high sex drive, so who am I to judge? I've since learned that he is very turned on by sex in unusual and somewhat public places. I think it's hot that every time we go out, he puts a condom in his pocket just in case. Oh Gaaawwwd. Where did the c** go? Gross! I used to be a flight attendant, and I saw some sick sh**, but I would have totally freaked out if I had ever caught someone ejaculating onto the tray table! And by the way, when the plane overnights it may be vacuumed and the lavs cleaned but that's about it! Anything on the seats or tray tables is going to stay right where it is until some poor passenger finds it!
SugarKiss Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 Thanks all for your insight, NO NO! If that was the case, I would be gone in a second. He said private spot like way on the outskirts of town, where there was no one around. I am pretty open to sexual experiences, but I know when to draw the line... I love the fact that he has such a fantastic sex drive... but it was just something I never heard of before. I have to say, he does want to do sexual things in his car.... he seems to find it really sexy. I think he's got an "in car" fetish. ya it sounds like he has a thing for doing it in cars, the possibility of getting caught might have something to do with it as well. or who knows maybe there is a childhood association to cars and his early experience with sexual expression..... I think it's kind of hot actually but then again I'm a bit of a perv myself too so....maybe I am not good to judge anything in sex is fine, I think, as long as two people can agree on it, when you can't then it is time to part ways and find someone who is more compatible. so what was your concern if you are pretty open minded sexually...was it just that you had never heard of this before or was there something else behind it and it triggered other thoughts? just curious
Ruby Slippers Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 Oh Gaaawwwd. Where did the c** go? I asked the same question. TMI WARNING (as if the above wasn't TMI, haha): In his underwear. Everything happened in there, under his coat. It was a really empty flight, and no one else was in his row. I remembered after posting that he also told me he'd done it in the car on his way to see me before, too. I thought it was a little over-the-top, but as I said, since he's always up for it and keeps me very happy in the sex department, why complain? I love the fact that we're adventurous together. He has helped make a lot of my longstanding sexual fantasies come true. Before him, I was never really satisfied with the intensity and variety in my sex life. Now I am a happy girl.
ARDriver01 Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 i've seen this several times while driving... i don't think it's that out of the ordinary... if you pay attention to cars around you. Really? Great, now I'm going to be the look out. So, when you're at a red light, do you look at the people around you? I had no idea! Is is really that common?
t_veron Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Hey all, This is a weird question, but I was kind of spooked by something my new boyfriend casually mentioned to me recently. He told me one day while we were driving down the highway that when hes alone he sometimes beats off while hes driving on the highway. Then about a week later he told me that he had parked his car up in the middle of nowhere to beat off. Does this sound strange to anyone else? I know it's not the ONLY place he pleasures himself... but seriously... What's going on here? Who beats off while sitting in their car by their self? If he's in his mid 20's and older and doing this he's got issues. If he's younger then he's just horny. I haven't had the need to do that myself but everyone has their own thing that turns them on. Could be a phase but only time will tell. If you're into him and want to be someone he'll never forget then the next time he's driving ask him to pull over somewhere quiet and secluded and beat him off (assuming you guys are sexually active). He'll never want to do it by himself again and you'll be the one he'll think of rather than beat off.
refurb Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 A female friend of mine does this on long drives. I've never done it, probably never will but I don't think it's that out there. RF
sortofconfused Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 wow.... im pretty shocked by all the reactions to this as if it was no big deal. this is seriously some weird ****, i can only imagine what any girl ive been with wouldve done if i said something like that. get away from this guy as soon as you can, but before you do, bring a black light into his car to see the severity of his problem, lol.
cutegirl Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Haha, I don't think it's weird, but funny. It wouldn't freak me out if a guy jerked off while driving. I think it's funny. I never masturbated while driving personally, but I compulsively look in the mirror at every single red light while driving (I use both mirrors, rearview mirror and the one in the sun screen thing) and study my face and look at all my pores, study my makeup in the sun. I do it REALLY compulsively tho. It's probably worse than masturbating in the car because I am sooo compulsive about it.
t_veron Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 A female friend of mine does this on long drives. I've never done it, probably never will but I don't think it's that out there. RF Live a little you might make some guy very happy. wow.... im pretty shocked by all the reactions to this as if it was no big deal. this is seriously some weird ****, i can only imagine what any girl ive been with wouldve done if i said something like that. get away from this guy as soon as you can, but before you do, bring a black light into his car to see the severity of his problem, lol. Same goes for you. Live a little out of the box and your sex life and relationship might become a little better. To each their own. Morally I don't see a problem here. If you have serious hangups don't give bad advice. You sound like you'd put a child in therapy if you caught them masterbating. There's nothing wrong with self discovery or gratification. Of course age matters so everything has it's time and place. But I do agree the guy doesn't have much class or brains to blurt something like that out. I'm assuming he's not the brightest and he's young but that doesn't make him mental.
Author Strawberry Cane Posted June 14, 2008 Author Posted June 14, 2008 so what was your concern if you are pretty open minded sexually...was it just that you had never heard of this before or was there something else behind it and it triggered other thoughts? just curious I just never heard of it before ever. I know of people making out in cars together, or having sex in cars, and yes, even car bjs, but not ever alone, while driving on the highway... I mean, I thought, wouldn't you get into an accident maybe? I mean, people can drive pretty fast out there!
Author Strawberry Cane Posted June 14, 2008 Author Posted June 14, 2008 get away from this guy as soon as you can, but before you do, bring a black light into his car to see the severity of his problem, lol. It's funny you should say that because he has 3 black lights in his car... and I've never seen anything out of the ordinary. If he's in his mid 20's and older and doing this he's got issues. If he's younger then he's just horny. Hes 20.
Storyrider Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 People masturbate in cars for the same reason people have sex in cars. Either to bring a little spontaneity into the relationship or because it is the only way they can be alone.
Nemo Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 I know it's not the ONLY place he pleasures himself... It's the thin edge of the wedge. http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1691888
Storyrider Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 It's the thin edge of the wedge. http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1691888 Lets hope he doesn't mouse with both hands. Anti-bacterial wipe, anyone?
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