northstar1 Posted June 16, 2008 Posted June 16, 2008 Yes, I think it's harder because there's nothing to hang it on - the reason for the breakup - it just IS. and his saying it was nothing I said or did, that it wasn't "me" means there was nothing I could have said or done to prevent it happening....... I think you get more "stuck" when there was nothing wrong between you as a R, when the reason for the breakup was external.... I completely agree. In my mind, I'm still trying to rationalize "well, there was nothing wrong with "US", it was just a matter of circumstances with being long distance, why can't it work out"? I know I need to accept that people end up on different paths in life.
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