Ihateeverything Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 OK this is so retarded and I feel like a 14 year old teenage girl. I have a stupid crush on a co-worker that I have to work with everyday. He is married and I'm not trying to start anything here (to get that out of the way). I realize it is a stupid thing, I'm just like magnetically attracted to him, and every time I try to talk to him I get all stupid and retarded. I get nervous and forget what I'm saying, start stumbling over my words, start feeling all jittery and hyper. Like I said, I just get RETARDED. I can't stop staring at him, I stare at him while we're talking and he stares back. It is so embarrassing. I really would like to get over this so my life can be normal. I think about him all the time, and I hate it. Someone give me advice on how to deal with this?? Please?? I'm begging you universe! Sincerely, Retard Girl:love:
Author Ihateeverything Posted June 13, 2008 Author Posted June 13, 2008 I am seriously asking for help here. I am sorry if I didn't title mine "Professional". Please I need advice on how to better focus on my work and stop thinking about this guy.
Kamille Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 unfortunately, I know of no secret recipe that helps one get rid of a crush. I have had work crushes. They can be intense. Mine have always passed (I try not to date coworkers), with time, and also, with meeting their partners. Perhaps you could focus on the fact that this crush is fun, and try to stay open to the possibility of multiple crushes? You know, be totally high school and go boy crazy? Find the 'crush-worthy' element of every guy you meet?
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