dharris27 Posted June 12, 2008 Posted June 12, 2008 I'll set up the way it went in easy steps so this is simple to respond to when this guy and i met it was as if the world stood still, something we both agreed on and why we persevered through some growing stages. So not to sound arrogant within this list, he was quit amazing. 1. Dated a guy for two years 2. We broke up a few times because he lied/had anxiety issues/anger issues 3. He was convinced i was the best thing that happened and made great improvements in being a better guy 4. by two years we weren't where should of been - meaning I felt that our relationship had not matured due to his immaturity 5. I called it off 6. He was shocked begged for me back 7. We got back together for the nth time 8. After a few weeks i was so busy we hardly saw each other - he started freaking out and said maybe we should call it quits because he saw us headed in the same direction. He had anxiety attacks and freaked the whole time this went on. It ended because i had no faith anyway at that point. 9. Two months after our breakup he's contacting me yet seeing someone new - by then she'd already become close to his friends and even his new boss and co-workers and it seemed really serious - it still is as they are still together. 10. He had known her before they started dating but never talked about her- except one time he mentioned she loudly screwed his roommate and she talked to him like he was stupid. Once i saw some texts from her in his phone. They were really platonic though as i had male friends as well and this guy was super attached to me i never worried. 11. because they got so close so fast and in a more mature relationship than we ever had so fast I have been really hurt and angry - i think that should have been me. 12. She won't aknowledge my life in a room, he won't when he's with her. He and i stopped talking. He'll text me late at night if he sees me out - usually saying something like "i should have said a better hello" or "why didn't you say hi" 13. I wonder if she liked him all along and that's why she never bothered to be nice to me. We all have a lot of mutual friends. She's also six years older than him and nine almost eight years older than me...so naturally she might be mothering this whole thing, i dunno. 14. All this made me so insecure and sad and jealous and made me feel betrayed. How'd that realationship develop so fast? p.s. she isn't very attractive either - whatever I'm better though i think about this less and less...but ****, why do guys move on so fast, like you never meant anything? Do you think it was a rebound that worked out?
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