datleinad Posted June 12, 2008 Posted June 12, 2008 I got to know a girl and some other people from this volunteering group that went about 3 months, we all hit it off with each other. On that last day we had to see each other, we all went out and after most of us exchanged numbers, but I never got hers. She was the one I was probably closet to, so I feel kinda strange that out of everyone, she's the only I didn't acknowledge anything about seeing again or hanging out. Of course probably since there was tension there, if ya know what I mean. But I'm a flake. Guilty!! Anyway, I think it would be weird getting her number from our other friends. Cause I should've just asked her myself. Would that be just too weird? If they had her email that'd be better cause I can just say hey I forget to ask you for you number, and I don't think I would mind too much if I never got a reply.
Suiyobi Posted June 12, 2008 Posted June 12, 2008 Lol oh man I know the feeling, something similar happened to me too. I could be wrong, but I think you were just shy at the time, so to not make yourself look direct and needy for her, you probably went off to get everyone else's numbers first, planned on getting hers eventually, but for some reason ended up not having done it. If you really like her though, bite the bullet and do what you said, "getting her number from [your] other friends." When she asks you how you got her number just be honest. I think girls prefer honest guys, but try to keep your cool in spite of the situation being rather awkward.
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 12, 2008 Posted June 12, 2008 If you don't feel comfortable getting her number from your friends, you could always reverse it. Have them give her your number with a message to call you. Yes, there is a bit of a waiting game involved, but there's less pressure on you. You won't be wondering if she's mad that you got her number through other means. Plus, you won't have to go through the pre-calling jitters. As a bonus, the friends will probably also mention to her that you've been talking about her a lot (and you will be, right?), so she'll already know that you like her and this isn't just because you forgot to get her number before.
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