simple_guy25 Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 I've been seeing someone for about 2 months now. Her last relationship was an abusive one to say the least, so we decided to take things slow, which I was completely okay with. 2 weeks ago we decided we were ready to sleep together, but when the night came, she called off our date and said she was feeling pressured. I'm not sure how, because it was her idea in the first place. Anyway we took a step back, and have only been emailing each other since then. The other day we were talking about activities we could do together (she has 3 kids, so that limits our opportunities). Last night I emailed her, and I mentioned how there were lots of possibilities. In it I jokingly mentioned sex a couple of times, trying to lighten the mood. This morning when I checked my email, I had a reply from her, saying she was thinking the same thing, and was trying to get a babysitter for the weekend so we could 'go away' together. I'm a little concerned because 2 weeks ago she was saying we moved too fast and she wasnt ready for a relationship just yet, but still wanted one with me when she was ready. I started to distance myself from her a bit, expecting that to be the end of it. but now she is right back where we were, suggesting we sleep together. Is she using me? Just confused about what she wants? Trying to keep me around until she's ready? or just made up her mind? I don't know what to think.
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