LikeCharlotte Posted June 12, 2008 Posted June 12, 2008 It's CP, not OP, I'm assumin you're talkin bout me!OP means original poster. You are right, everyone is responsible for their own actions. Why would you justify hurting someone you don't know? You have no respect for her? I didn't read a single good reason for that other than she took "your man". He went along willingly you know. He's not a lost puppy. She is a person and no one deserves to be lied to and cheated. You really should take some responsibility and not let him use you and hurt someone else. Did you ever think that maybe he was screwing someone else while you were with him? Wouldn't you want that girl to stop him and say "Hey, what about your girl?" More than that, why don't you see his behavior as sneaky and wrong? You might get him back and if you do you'll end up with exactly what you bargained for; a sneaky cheating emotionally immature loser. I bet he's feeling fine, he has two girls willing to f*** him and they both are willing to compete and no one is pointing any fingers at him. He loves it. Cailin, have some self respect and cut this off before you get hurt.
mollers Posted June 12, 2008 Posted June 12, 2008 What about hurting his current girlfriend? I'm very disturbed by the lack of concern mollers and OP are showing for the hurt he's causing HER by cheating. OP is complicit in causing that hurt. Having been cheated on, I have no sympathy for the cheaters or the people they cheat with. I am not showing a lack of concern for his current girlfriend, I think the fact that he is disrespecting her goes without saying. When I originally posted saying 'no harm done', it was not in the realisation that he had a new girlfriend, I obviously misread thinking he was Cailinpig's ex who she had let back into her life again. My ex partner cheated on me whilst I was pregnant, so I am one person who doesn't need advice on the hurt caused by cheating. Obviously his current girlfriend is being hurt and deceived by this, however my post was primarly dealing with Cailinpig and her situation because she is the one posting on the boards. Yes, she is complicit in the hurt and is being hurt in the process.
Author CailinPig Posted June 12, 2008 Author Posted June 12, 2008 I know he didn't cheat on me for reasons I won't post here. I know he's not a lost puppy. He's using me but I'm using him also. I already said that in a previous posting. No, if he was screwin another girl while he was with me, I still feel it has nothin to do with that girl. It's up to the person who's in the relationship, I've always believed that. I'm not just saying it now cos I'm in the situation. I've never been in this situation before but me and my friends used to discuss it, and it was always my belief. Yes, you're right, he's a sneaky cheating emotionally immature loser, but gimme a break, I feel like my life's over. Being with him makes me forget all that. I feel s**t now.
justaman99 Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 What do you do with spare time now ex is gone? Live life
Nevermind Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 gimme a break, I feel like my life's over. Being with him makes me forget all that. I feel s**t now. Being with him like this won't let you heal at all.
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