AndyW Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 Well when it rains it pours, in a good way. I have gone out with a girl a few times and hung out and it was a lot of fun. Now she is texting me and so forth a fair amount. I hung out with my friend and his girlfriend and sister all Saturday night and Sunday. Turns out she was cute and fun. She is calling and texting everyday now. Then there are some other people that are still calling and so forth. I guess my point is the more I acted like I can give to ****s and am just myself and that I am not looking for anything the more it seems like women are coming out of the wood work. Don't get me wrong, I am nice and myself but I am not pushing anything with anyone what so ever. I don't know if they don't believe me when I say I am just chill by myself right now and I am not ready. I guess I just don't want anyone to expect anything from me right now. I am really selfish right now and totally undecided about when I might be ready again. Maybe that is still because I am not fully ready or maybe I just haven't found someone that I am totally crazy about yet. I just think it is funny that the more I don't hit on anyone, don't try to put moves on anyone, the more I am aloof, the more it seems like everyone wants me. I am sure that will change the minute I am ready!
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 Great, Andy, just keep doing what you're doing and don't worry about what other people want or expect. You are doing what is right and necessary for you right now. Have fun with these girls! Keep it light and fun, and don't be afraid to tell them that that is all you want right now.
Author AndyW Posted June 23, 2008 Author Posted June 23, 2008 So I have been going out with a lot of different people. But what keeps happening is I will go out with a girl once and then they sort of start acting like they are my girlfriend. I have explained to everyone upfront what happened and that I am not looking for anything even remotely serious and I am not. So if they still want to hang out that is there choice. If something happens between us on a certain night that doesn't change anything I said prior to us going out. I am upfront at the start. But now I have certain females, calling, emailing, texting and that is not what I want. If anything they just scare me off almost instantly. So basically I go out with someone once and that is it. Just in a weird place.
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