lonelyindistance Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 out of curiosity, what did he say about the "side view"? while, i'm very sorry for you that you wasted a year w/this deceptive and shallow guy. i'm happy that you found out sooner than later...i guess that probably doesn't help much right now...maybe?
HisLove Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 Habibti, I'm still looking for what I want to give you. I think you are being to verbose with him, it's coming across as if you're trying to convince him why he's wrong. A two-liner would suffice for now. Something like this:- You are a shallow hypocrite. You aren't exactly trophy-mate material yourself. Anything you said and the way your thought processes work speaks volumes on who you are. I don't like who you are. How do you like the back-view as I bend over so you can kiss my butt. Goodbye.
Lucky_One Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 Are you totally 100% positive that he is single? He wouldn't be the first man to have either multiple GFs, or be married/living together/dating with an online "fun buddy". Have you ever googled him, or looked him up on Intelius for his addy, tp#, property records? Can you call him at home (not on a cell) any time of day or night? Sounds like he got scared bc the two weeks is right here.
Maggs Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 I also wondered what LuckyOne said. But I have to also say that maybe he's all of a sudden got commitment-phobic. Maybe him stating that he wasn't impressed with your first impression is just merely a simple excuse (albeit very shallow!) to get out. I'm so very sorry to hear of this all though. Reading this thread just breaks my heart. I hope you have lots of family and friends nearby that can take you out and cheer you up. Take care.
TMichaels Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 Habibti, I'm still looking for what I want to give you. A two-liner would suffice for now. Something like this:- How do you like the back-view as I bend over so you can kiss my butt. Goodbye. Au contraire, HisLove. I think this will do nicely. TMichaels
Author Habibti Posted June 11, 2008 Author Posted June 11, 2008 LOL !! Thanks for all the support. As for the people wondering about seeing someone else..like I said, we used to fall asleep together on the phone almost daily. I had a cell phone number yes and his home phone that I could call at any time of day. I know what he was hiding, it wasn't a girlfriend it was his true self.
Maggs Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 LOL !! Thanks for all the support. As for the people wondering about seeing someone else..like I said, we used to fall asleep together on the phone almost daily. I had a cell phone number yes and his home phone that I could call at any time of day. I know what he was hiding, it wasn't a girlfriend it was his true self. Very true Habibti! You shouldn't be feeling sorry for yourself, you should be feeling sorry for him! Sounds like he must lead a truly miserable life inside.
HisLove Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 TMichaels That was pretty mild for me. Now you know why I get myself into trouble with an equally smartypants Sicilian lol.
Myst Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 If he saw pics of you as you are now, I'm surprised that webcam would have made a difference. More likely, webcam made you too real, scaring the crap out of him. I agree. Sounds like there had always been a part of him, that disliked her weight and the webcam conversation was the clincher. He's a lying @$$h:confused:le by the sound of it and I know it hurts. He has lead you on by telling you the weight didnt matter. You deserve better, Habibti dont waste any more thime thinking about this jerk. What a scumbag.
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