Lhillenb18 Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 I have been in this situation for 3 months now... I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years. I just graduated college and she is looking to get more serious. She has been talking about getting engaged, but not for a few years. It has made me nervous. She is a beautiful girl but my family doesn't know her well because she never comes to my house, I always visit her. Also, she can be a great person, but sometimes she just doesn't act very nice. I have been feeling more and more like she is not the girl for me but I can't seem to break up with her. This is the first time in my life I have wanted to be the one breaking off the relationship. I am moving away (in NJ now, moving to OH) for work. I will be gone for 6 months and I figured this would give me some space from her. I am very emotionally attached, even as a guy. And the hardest part has honestly been thinking about her with other guys and the sexual part. How do I get over that? Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.
kizik Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 If she doesn't act very nice (which I can feel is an understatement), you've got problems. My ex was super sweet to the world, but a bitch with me. I always made excuses for her, but in the end it was undeserved, cruel, humiliating. If she won't come over to your house, it's a problem. If you move away, break it off. I just got out of a long distance relationship that broke my f*cking heart. Don't worry about her f*cking some other guy. Just end it.
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