Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 TC's thread made me think about this.. how does someone can tell if the person has had a tons of sexual partners.. it's not written in their face.. and chances are, the promiscuous person will not tell..
sally4sara Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I don't believe in the word slut really. But what sets the tone is the way they carry themselves. Do what you do but if you can't carry your head high you are living wrong. If you have to keep it a secret; you are living wrong. And if you can't respect yourself people pick up on it and don't respect you either.
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I don't believe in the word slut really. But what sets the tone is the way they carry themselves. Do what you do but if you can't carry your head high you are living wrong. If you have to keep it a secret; you are living wrong. And if you can't respect yourself people pick up on it and don't respect you either. I agree, but I believe in sluts.
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 I don't believe in the word slut really. But what sets the tone is the way they carry themselves. Do what you do but if you can't carry your head high you are living wrong. If you have to keep it a secret; you are living wrong. And if you can't respect yourself people pick up on it and don't respect you either. Yeah I don't like that word either.. but I just wanted to get my message across.. I don't think there is a way someone can tell if a person have had 50-100 sexual partners.. unless the person is classless, dressed slutty, or if she/he has a leathery 'alcoholic' face. I should have specified.. a 'normal' looking person...
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Yeah I don't like that word either.. but I just wanted to get my message across.. I don't think there is a way someone can tell if a person have had 50-100 sexual partners.. unless the person is classless, dressed slutty, or if she/he has a leathery 'alcoholic' face. I should have specified.. a 'normal' looking person... Lizzie, it's about attitude. So, yest sometimes we guys can tell, though it usually takes time. Do you prefer skank instead of slut?
sally4sara Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I agree, but I believe in sluts. Most guys do because it is never aimed at them in a shameful tone....and YOUR gender is?
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Most guys do because it is never aimed at them in a shameful tone....and YOUR gender is? It can't be aimed at us guys in a shameful tone. Women want men with experience... am I not right?
Stockalone Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 TC's thread made me think about this.. how does someone can tell if the person has had a tons of sexual partners.. it's not written in their face.. and chances are, the promiscuous person will not tell.. I ask. Call me naive but I still would expect a promiscuos person to either tell me the truth or at least tell me that her number is none of my business which is also a response that answers my question. On the other hand, one can never be sure if other people tell you the truth. And some people don't care if they lie or not. I still ask because in the case I got lied to I didn't have to feel sorry for dumping her once the truth came out.
Tomcat33 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Women want men with experience... am I not right? yes women want a man with experience and you can gain PLENTY experience being in a relationship, you don't have to have a thousand one night stands to get experience in fact the types of guys that have nothing but one night stands and no meaningful sexual relationships are TERRIBLE in bed, they haven't a clue about a woman's body because they never really actually get to know their way around a woman's body so they are doing themselves a HUGE disservice really. How do you know if a person has had many partners, there is no sure way of knowing really, but eventually you can tell in a person's sexual self confidence a person who has had no intimacy and only sex it SHOWS!
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 Lizzie, it's about attitude. So, yest sometimes we guys can tell, though it usually takes time. Do you prefer skank instead of slut? No I prefer slut..
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 It can't be aimed at us guys in a shameful tone. Women want men with experience... am I not right? And men don't want an experienced woman?
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 I ask. Call me naive but I still would expect a promiscuos person to either tell me the truth or at least tell me that her number is none of my business which is also a response that answers my question. On the other hand, one can never be sure if other people tell you the truth. And some people don't care if they lie or not. I still ask because in the case I got lied to I didn't have to feel sorry for dumping her once the truth came out. I would never tell... because I would probably scare the sh*t out of everyone one of them.. If the guy asks.. I'd say it's none of his business... The truth might NEVER come out.. and trust me.. no one can ever suspect that I've had tons of partners..
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 yes women want a man with experience and you can gain PLENTY experience being in a relationship, you don't have to have a thousand one night stands to get experience in fact the types of guys that have nothing but one night stands and no meaningful sexual relationships are TERRIBLE in bed, they haven't a clue about a woman's body because they never really actually get to know their way around a woman's body so they are doing themselves a HUGE disservice really. Good point! Not all experiences are equal. However, you rarely see those guys go home alone. Why? My guess is that women like men who other women want, and desire to change him. Men are like this also... but not to the same extent. We are more territorial and much less willing to share a mate. We also much less likely to believe we can change a woman. No I prefer slut.. What's wrong with skank? I thought skanks were the new sluts. And men don't want an experienced woman? Some do, most don't, a few don't care either way.
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 I don't know.. I like to say 'slut'.. slut slut slut
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I don't know.. I like to say 'slut'.. slut slut slut I suddenly feel more confident and attractive! Wait... you are saying that to me right?
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 I suddenly feel more confident and attractive! Wait... you are saying that to me right? Hahaha..
Stockalone Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 I would never tell... because I would probably scare the sh*t out of everyone one of them.. If the guy asks.. I'd say it's none of his business... If a woman tells me her number is none of my business, I take that as a number I am not comfortable with and walk away. The truth might NEVER come out.. and trust me.. no one can ever suspect that I've had tons of partners.. Well, in some cases it does come out and it sucks to have been lied to. In your case, if that ever happened, I would blame the guy if he doesn't ask or doesn't walk away at the "none of your business" answer.
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 10, 2008 Author Posted June 10, 2008 If a woman tells me her number is none of my business, I take that as a number I am not comfortable with and walk away. trust me you'd 'run' away..
Art_Critic Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 We can tell if a woman is a slut in somewhat the fashion that women can tell if a guy is a player... I won't reveal my secrets that I have learned through out my lifetime.. my secrets are always dead on and could guarantee me a score.. well.. when I was single and into that... I just don't want to indirectly call someone a slut that I don't know...
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 10, 2008 Author Posted June 10, 2008 We can tell if a woman is a slut in somewhat the fashion that women can tell if a guy is a player... I won't reveal my secrets that I have learned through out my lifetime.. my secrets are always dead on and could guarantee me a score.. well.. when I was single and into that... I just don't want to indirectly call someone a slut that I don't know... Hum... I'm not convinced AC... I don't think it's that easy to tell.. Plllleeeeze tell us ONE secret.. just one.. pllllleeeezzee.. just one little one.. pruutty pleezze.
D-Lish Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 I ask. Call me naive but I still would expect a promiscuos person to either tell me the truth or at least tell me that her number is none of my business which is also a response that answers my question. On the other hand, one can never be sure if other people tell you the truth. And some people don't care if they lie or not. I still ask because in the case I got lied to I didn't have to feel sorry for dumping her once the truth came out. See, I don't like discussing "numbers" with people. I don't ask a guy how many women he has been with- it's something I truly feel is none of my business unless he chooses to tell me on his own accord. I like to judge someone by getting to know them and come to my own conclusions about their character.... and I want someone to do that with me. I don't have a high number, nor am I promiscuous. I just don't like to talk a lot about past sexual experiences with the person I am with. What I DO think is important to talk about are issues like birth control, being safe, and when the last time they were tested for STD's.... I think someone would be able to tell upon getting to know me that I don't take sex lightly- simply because I will wait to have sex. In my experience- most men will "try" to have sex as quickly as possible! Not all men- but many will give it a shot. I am just very aware that when I choose to give it up has bearing on what they will think of me (ie: good time girl or long term girl). I enjoy sex though- and I think about it a lot. My thoughts are sure slutty!
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 10, 2008 Author Posted June 10, 2008 Or ... I'm wondering.. if the woman is really great in bed (because of obvious experience) *like me*... then she would have to lie and say that she got that from reading a lot on sexuality..
Stockalone Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 If a woman tells me her number is none of my business, I take that as a number I am not comfortable with and walk away. trust me you'd 'run' away.. Just to be on the safe side, I guess I will run away from every french canadian woman I encounter. C'est une honte! Le Québec est trés joli et la culture québécoise est singulière, mais le français québécois est incompréhensible. I hope I didn't make too many mistakes, my french is more than a bit rusty these days.
Author Lizzie60 Posted June 10, 2008 Author Posted June 10, 2008 Just to be on the safe side, I guess I will run away from every french canadian woman I encounter. C'est une honte! Le Québec est trés joli et la culture québécoise est singulière, mais le français québécois est incompréhensible. I hope I didn't make too many mistakes, my french is more than a bit rusty these days. Well it depends.. Quebec French, when spoken well.. is comprehensible.. like English.. there is slang.. For your information, I'm a franco-ontarienne... I've been in Quebec only for the last 5 years.. I was born in Ontario.
D-Lish Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 C'est une honte! Le Québec est trés joli et la culture québécoise est singulière, mais le français québécois est incompréhensible. I hope I didn't make too many mistakes, my french is more than a bit rusty these days. okay... you just said "I like wearing women's panties on my head while dancing to Abba"....
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