Author sibernox Posted September 26, 2008 Author Posted September 26, 2008 , why not add a bit of excitement into your relationship and see how things go? What do you mean? Sorry for the really late reply. I know...I'm retarded.
Intergalactic Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 if you want to try seeing someone else, think it will make you happier or whatever, by all means do it because you have every right to. but please, for the love of god, do NOT tell your girlfriend you want to "take a break" because you want to date someone else. because that means, if she loves and wants you, she will wait for this break to be over. and if you find yourself happier with this other person, you will be keeping your girlfriend waiting and then breaking up with her completely. you will ruin any chance of a friendship or possible future relationship. if you ask for a "break", you're essentially wanting to have your cake and eat it too... and that is NOT ON. if you want to do this, you should. you should do what makes YOU happy. but be a man about it and don't try and have everything your way. at the end of the day, you might find you made a mistake and then you go from there. but you might not have made a mistake. either way, it's all experience. edit: guess i'm too late, you did the stupid "break" thing.
mental_traveller Posted September 27, 2008 Posted September 27, 2008 I know the feeling. Every time I had this feeling, I eventually broke up and was *so* relieved to be single and free again. I always regretted that I did not act sooner. Seriously, when you start saying "I love her, but I'm not *in love* with her", the relationship is over. Just get out asap, better for both sides.
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