Lookingforward Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 No his friend is from the states as well and she had origanally married a canadian man and she managed to get a work permit here in canada... she soon divorced her man. I have met her... she seems like a nice woman.. but still they share a hotel room and will be for the next month... it makes me uneasy.. but all 3 of you are IN Canada, right ? uneasy..............<wanders off muttering> jane, you just don't WANT to listen to what people here are saying, do you ? What is it that will make you see the truth of your situation?
D-Lish Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 do i deserve this kind of treatment? Yes, you do... Why? Because you ALLOW it- plain and simple. YOU have to be the one to make the choice that you don't deserve that kind of treatment. You do that by walking away.
porter218 Posted June 13, 2008 Posted June 13, 2008 Jane, WAKE UP! He is living with his girlfriend, and you are the OW(you just happen to be his wife as well). There is no other way to take this situation. I would seriously bet my new Jag on this!! Please stop letting him play you sooooo much. He will use any excuse to cut contact with you for a while because it makes his gf feel better about their R. The only thing he is mad about is the fact that you are starting to catch him in his game, but he has learned that if he acts like you are the wrong one then you will believe him.
MichelleS1983 Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Why do you folks even bother posting to this woman? You all take your time and energy to write down your thoughts and advice on what this ridiculously STUPID situation looks like from a NORMAL point of view, and the original poster doesn't even so much as ACKNOWLEDGE what anyone's taken the time to write to her. Instead, she just comes back with more complete delusion about feeling 'uneasy' that her scumbag loser moocher pig of a husband is living off someone else in a hotel room. And how "counseling" is their only hope. Go ahead Jane, and continue waiting for Prince Charming. I'm sure he's just 'misguided' at the moment. He'll back to make an utter fool of you AGAIN before long and you seem to thrive on it, so I'm sure you're looking forward to it. I suggest you good posters go give advice to someone whose willing to actually LISTEN to those they ask the advice of.
Lookingforward Posted June 14, 2008 Posted June 14, 2008 Mich - it's kinda like watching a train wreck, ya know ?
Mary3 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 You know, if he was looking for women on Craig's List, he could use the excuse that he was looking for a used recliner or a Nintendo Wii. But the only thing one finds on dating sites is women...to date. Between the crotch shots and his new female friend and "keeper", I don't think you're doing your fellow countrymen any favors by smuggling him into Canada... Mr. Lucky Right ON !
Mary3 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 No his friend is from the states as well and she had origanally married a canadian man and she managed to get a work permit here in canada... she soon divorced her man. I have met her... she seems like a nice woman.. but still they share a hotel room and will be for the next month... it makes me uneasy.. Please this is making me sick ! How did you MEET this guy ?? PLease don't say the Internet ! If it was the internet , he's just like the fake preacher on the Court Tv show who got involved with a naive girl , she gave him lots of money , he ditched her for the NEXT chick he was talking to....who ended up paying and supporting him , until he dumps HER and gets another one...
Mary3 Posted June 19, 2008 Posted June 19, 2008 Mich - it's kinda like watching a train wreck, ya know ? chooooooo chooooooooo !!..................
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