celinedion1 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Well it's now been 4 days since i broke up with my ex bf for cheating on me. For the first day or two it was extremely difficult but now I'm actually feeling very happy that I'm no longer with him. Just before I broke up with him like a week before I couldn't imagine him not being in my life since he was in my life since I was 16, im now 24. However now I honestly don't even miss him. He's hurt me so bad that I guess I just got tired of it. Every other week he would say something hurtful or cruel to me or just randomly ignore me. I honestly feel like I've cried all the tears that i can cry, I've felt all the emotional pain that I could feel and now i just feel numb to it all. Maybe this is a way to cope with all the BS, however I'm honestly very surprised at how quickly I've moved on. I'm not getting into any serious relationship but I am having fun flirting with guys and just going out and having a nice time. Should I really not be having any feelings for him and be able to move on in just 4 days?
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Don't question this good luck. Sometimes, enough is enough and it's a relief to lose the burden!
Author celinedion1 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 You remind me of someone. Oh really, who?
dadawg Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Sometimes the pain is immediate, sometimes it's not, and sometimes there may not be any. If you are the last one, you sure are lucky. However, the mind is a very complicated organ. As the days go by, it will suppress all bad memories and deeds he has done to you for its own good. Then you might actually think you miss him, but really you don't. It's just your mind. My advice, change your number, apartment, house or whatever because he will try to come back. I know you won't take him back, but why should you go through the emotional roller coaster for this loser?
Author celinedion1 Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 Sometimes the pain is immediate, sometimes it's not, and sometimes there may not be any. If you are the last one, you sure are lucky. However, the mind is a very complicated organ. As the days go by, it will suppress all bad memories and deeds he has done to you for its own good. Then you might actually think you miss him, but really you don't. It's just your mind. My advice, change your number, apartment, house or whatever because he will try to come back. I know you won't take him back, but why should you go through the emotional roller coaster for this loser? Thank you for your kind words and advice. We were together for 5 years, I guess i'm just surprised that I feel nothing towards him (no sadness, anger, nada) However i still have all of his stuff at my house. He told me that he would come and get it when he has the time (kind of arrogent huh lol). I've responded telling him that he has until the end of this week to come and get his stuff since I'm going away for a month. I told him this 3 days ago and I haven't heard from him since. I hope he comes and gets his crap before i leave otherwise he'll just have to wait until I get back home.
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