carrotgirl Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Just like not all good looking guys are d_ouchebags. HA HA HA HA HA HA ! Right! Some of the douchebags look like Giant King Fu Panda Douches! Carrot
kizik Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 OK well, I don't consider myself bitter, I just know that the world turns a certain way for a gorgeous woman, and often times they change because of it. But I don't want to get branded a sexist by people here who I respect... so please accept my apologies IF I've offended you.
JustPassingThru Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 The prettiest chicks are often the bitchiest, most manipulative, selfish, etc. This is because men and the world have spoiled them and inflated their heads to the point that these women think they can do whatever they want. Rare is the really hot chick who is totally put together and wholly considerate. Consider yourself lucky to be rid of such a princess. I agree with Kiz. It's not sexist, however it is a generalization, but it's a generalization that I've found to be quite true. Sure, "not all" and I repeat "not all" pretty girls can be placed in the bitch category, but the vast majority of them definitly fill the role. The same can be said for men.
LikeCharlotte Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 OK well, I don't consider myself bitter, I just know that the world turns a certain way for a gorgeous woman, and often times they change because of it. But I don't want to get branded a sexist by people here who I respect... so please accept my apologies IF I've offended you.Its okay kizik. I just want you to know that the way the world turns for us isn't always roses. Sometimes we are pestered by nut cases, stalked, hurt in unimaginable ways or harassed. Sometimes a really great guy will be scared off by other pushy obnoxious ones and we can't do a thing about it. Sometimes a really great guy is so intimidated that he feels like he is not good enough or in the same league and you lose him just because of that. Sometimes the really great guy you got involved with is so paranoid that you will leave that he suffocates you or leaves you first. Sometimes when you've studied really hard and finished school and are out to celebrate the only thing you hear all night is that you look great. Sometimes you can't keep a job because other women are mean to you or the men treat you with kid gloves (or worse they hit on you). Sometimes people just will not take you seriously no matter how hard you try. Sometimes you actually meet someone that gets past all of that and is wonderful in every other way and you think the world has finally opened up for you... but then you get your heartbroken anyway and see no end of the pain in sight. =) thanks for the apology kiz. It's totally cool. I just wanted to represent the flip side.
carrotgirl Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 OK well, I don't consider myself bitter, I just know that the world turns a certain way for a gorgeous woman, and often times they change because of it. But I don't want to get branded a sexist by people here who I respect... so please accept my apologies IF I've offended you. Oh kizik, no! You did not just utter a non-apology apology with that IF structure did you? Like how we see the behavior of each individual, the perception of beauty is subject to time and situation. Is it the women who change really? Or is it your perception of the women? And just because you think you know someone, that doesn't mean you do and beauty has nothing to do with it. Or am I the only one who has an ex that looks like Kung Fu Panda? Carrot
LikeCharlotte Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Oh kizik, no! You did not just utter a non-apology apology with that IF structure did you? Like how we see the behavior of each individual, the perception of beauty is subject to time and situation. Is it the women who change really? Or is it your perception of the women? And just because you think you know someone, that doesn't mean you do and beauty has nothing to do with it. Or am I the only one who has an ex that looks like Kung Fu Panda? CarrotNo, mine looks just a bit like Kung Fu Panda. A very small Kung Fu Panda with a much cuter nose.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I agree with Kiz. It's not sexist, however it is a generalization, but it's a generalization that I've found to be quite true. Sure, "not all" and I repeat "not all" pretty girls can be placed in the bitch category, but the vast majority of them definitly fill the role. The same can be said for men. Both are extreme inaccuracies. While yes, there are a percentage of lookers that are arseholes and bitches, there are a larger portion that are simply people, like everyone else.
Nevermind Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Mine looked great, perfect, wonderful...to me. I've heard quite a few time that he isn't the best looking man on the planet, but to me he was amazing. But I am not really beautiful, so I guess my experience was different. Everybody has problems, pretty girls, ugly girls, thin guys, fat guys...you should never judge someone until you walked a mile in their shoes. Generalizations are great for a moment, but they don't really help you through life.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 It's like saying, I had bad experiences with blue-eyed men, so all blue-eyed men are arseholes. Grrrr....
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 More like only a few of them. Both guys I'm casually dating right now are blue-eyed and wonderful men.
carrotgirl Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 My own Kung Fu GD has brilliantly blue eyes. They are exactly the color of a deep sky blue. Dangerous!
Nevermind Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Mine had green eyes...but maybe it was just the rotten, mouldy inside that was shining through? OP: You are still idolizing your ex, one day you will fall in love again and the beauty of this girl will outshine her by far.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 The other aspect of this, is that beauty/looks are so subjective. Some men prefer rail thin women, while others prefer the thicker women. I personally prefer men who are lean and fit. Some women might consider them too thin and prefer a man with more muscle mass or a larger frame. There's no one person who's universally attractive.
JustPassingThru Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 There's no one person who's universally attractive. Adriana Lima
carrotgirl Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 There's nothing I like more than a man who has a great, big, giant .... BRAIN .... and knows how to use it! Carrot
LikeCharlotte Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 There's nothing I like more than a man who has a great, big, giant .... BRAIN .... and knows how to use it! CarrotI'm with you Carrot! Smart is sexy!
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Adriana Lima You might want to see natural pics of her v. the touched up ones. She's not as beautiful as you might think. I know I was surprised at them.
Nevermind Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I saw pictures of her without make-up. She is still just as beautiful, imho.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Subjective!!! http://www.bastardly.com/archives/2007/11/18/2007-victorias-secret-show-adriana-lima-without-makeup?page=0,0
JustPassingThru Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Subjective!!! http://www.bastardly.com/archives/2007/11/18/2007-victorias-secret-show-adriana-lima-without-makeup?page=0,0 Thanks for killing that for me.
Nevermind Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Her hair is undone and her pose in unflattering, if you simply look at her face you see that she is still breath-takingly beautiful.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Thanks for killing that for me. Therefore, we start at the beginning again. In order to generalize that beautiful people are arseholes and bitches, who's beautiful?
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