TinhNho Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Hi guys, I know this girl for 14 years and we liked each other a lot back then, I would say she was my first love and so was I. For some reason, she had to move to Texas with her family. We did not contact each other for 5 years. Of course, we both had to move on. In 2003, we started talking each other thru the phone but just friends. At that time, I was dating with other girl and she was dating with other guy. I went to visit her in Texas last 2 months, suddenly all the feeling are came back. We had a lot of fun when I was in TX and last minutes when I was about to go back Minnesota, I asked her if I have a chance to be with her again and she said everyone has a chance (not sure what she means). I also asked her what would she think about long distance relationship and she said she doesn't know. After go back MN, we contact each other thru phone, text message and messenger but more often (like almost every day). Every time when I asked her how does she feel when she thinks about me then she never answer me. Or when I talk how I feel about her then she seems ignoring me for that subject. Is she playing hard to get ? I think this girl is really smart based on the way she speak and her education (going to master for microbiology). Should I just move on or what should I do ? Thanks .
endlesstrains Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Honestly to me it sounds like she doesn't really want to be in a relationship with you but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and wants to keep being friends, so she is trying to quietly deflect your advances.
Author TinhNho Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 i'm kind of feel the same way too. Should i stop talking to her and move on? Everytime when i talk to her I always think that she is giving me a chance, but it doesn't seem like that.
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