Linux Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 So I met this chick on CL last week, and only after spending about an hour with her over drinks this weekend she is already sending signals that she wants me to hit it (such as calling me at midnight asking if she can come over my house and "hang out"). I would normally have no problems with this except for shes 18 and I'm 25 Anyhow over the past few days she's been really pushing to come over late at night and sending me very suggestive text messages. I'm really trying to keep her at bay since I think if she does come over my house she is going to take advantage of me and I am really uncomfortable with the age difference. Anybody else have any similar experiences? What do you guys think?
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Sounds kinda young. Wow, I could not imagine being that aggressive at her age. Things have changed, i guess. Ultimately, you know that this is only going to be a booty call. If you are not comfortable with the age difference, let it go. No skin off your back.
Sand&Water Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 RE: IF it were some other guy in this situation, he would have taken advantage of the opportunity to hook-up/sleep/get intimate/whatever with this girl. The fact that you're hear asking this question, is beyond me. You're a guy. What is there to argue about? Oh Dear God. Seriously, she sounds like she's promiscuous at her age, but given how there about 50 guys who would love to be in your position, I don't see the problem. Oh. I forgot. You're a gentleman. You have to do everything the gentleman-way: "Mommy, can I have cookies with my milk!". Make up your mind, and do something. Sand&Water
Balthazar Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Well, I'm 37 and I would be glad to take her off your hands if the age difference is bothering you. Provided she's hot that is.........
Pedigree Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Well, I'm 37 and I would be glad to take her off your hands if the age difference is bothering you. Provided she's hot that is......... Linux, I'd only be worried if the age difference is like Grandpa Balt over here. Compared that 7 years is nothing. Go for it, dude.
Balthazar Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Linux, I'd only be worried if the age difference is like Grandpa Balt over here. Compared that 7 years is nothing. Go for it, dude. The older the wolf, the longer and sharper the teeth Ped.
Lishy Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Why are you on such a slimy site as CL and then get bothered because you have pulled a man eater? Get off that site it is for weirdo's!
Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 So I met this chick on CL last week, and only after spending about an hour with her over drinks this weekend she is already sending signals that she wants me to hit it (such as calling me at midnight asking if she can come over my house and "hang out"). I would normally have no problems with this except for shes 18 and I'm 25 Anyhow over the past few days she's been really pushing to come over late at night and sending me very suggestive text messages. I'm really trying to keep her at bay since I think if she does come over my house she is going to take advantage of me and I am really uncomfortable with the age difference. Anybody else have any similar experiences? What do you guys think? No big deal.. she's 'majeure et vaccinée' go for it.. she's legal.. plus there is only 7 years difference... I'm not a guy but I looooove younger... in my case there is even more than 18 years difference..
Suiyobi Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Be SURE she's 18, could be jailbait dude. Other than that, I don't see the problem really.
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 As long as she really is legal where you are (as the age of consent isn't always 18), I don't see the problem. If anything comes of it in terms of relations, it'll be weird at first since she probably likes different bands and she won't relate to some things you'll remember (betraying my age here: the Challenger explosion and Commodore 64's are prime examples), but that's about it. Of course, if you make a habit of it, you will take some friendly ribbing from your buddies. I could live with that.
Art_Critic Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Be SURE she's 18, could be jailbait dude. Other than that, I don't see the problem really. I'm with Suiyobi.. she might not be 18.. Either way make sure you wrap it.. We don't want you starting a thread in 4 weeks because her period is late ... Also.. make sure she doesn't have a BF or a recent ExBF and using you to make him jealous..
Author Linux Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 Hey guys Yeah I don't think I'm going to do it, I don't feel comfortable with it. I'll update you guys if I get suckered into it somehow.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 A girl this sexually aggressive at 18, spells trouble, for all kinds of reasons. Good for you for following your gut instincts!
Author Linux Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 I'm not so quick to judge and I have to be fair. I was also having sex at 18.
Trialbyfire Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 So was I but not aggressively pursuing guys for sex that I'd never met, nvm the ones I knew. For all you know, she might not be who she purports to be. She might be underage and extorting for cash or a hooker.
Author Linux Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 So was I but not aggressively pursuing guys for sex that I'd never met, nvm the ones I knew. For all you know, she might not be who she purports to be. She might be underage and extorting for cash or a hooker. Well I was aggressively pursing sex. Yeah I've only met her once for a hour and I know nothing about her, so yes she could not be who she says she is. At this point it doesn't really matter since I don't plan to follow through.
Lishy Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Hey, any minger who touts sex in the agressive fashion that she is should be avoided at any age! If you meet her you will be needing sand in your underpants to keep the crabs at home .... If you are lucky that is, it could be something far more serious!
Lookingforward Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I've only ever used craigslist for furniture .....oh wait.......nm
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