Confession: I made out with a married man last night....

[Gawdess]

I was out with some coworkers (teachers), and the bar was smoky so I went outside to get some fresh air. (I have smoke allergy issues.) Anyway this attractive male history teacher followed me out and we ended up making out. His wife works in the same building, in fact her room is across the hall from me.

We went back in and then about an hour later he started to get up and gave me "the eye" so I followed him 5 minutes later and we ended up making out some more outside, and he got to 2nd base with me.

I don't feel really guilty since his wife has been rude and snotty to me all year and I could see why he would want some relief from her (she is totally bitchy, lol.)

It was also psychological for me as it helped to show me I don't have to be the "goody goody" all the time, and it was secret revenge against this teacher who has been a total ass to me all year for no reason (his wife.) I know she has about 15 years on me (he is younger than her and more attractive) and I am way cuter so I think that is why she was playing the snot to me. also, I was the fun, cute teacher that students loved and had kids lined up in front of her room to visit before school, she was the boring, bitchy teacher the kids couldn't stand.

Let this be a lesson, your behavior will come back to get you, haha.

I don't feel guilty, but I definitely won't let this get any further.

[Lizzie60]

I was out with some coworkers (teachers), and the bar was smoky so I went outside to get some fresh air. (I have smoke allergy issues.) Anyway this attractive male history teacher followed me out and we ended up making out. His wife works in the same building, in fact her room is across the hall from me.

We went back in and then about an hour later he started to get up and gave me "the eye" so I followed him 5 minutes later and we ended up making out some more outside, and he got to 2nd base with me.

I don't feel really guilty since his wife has been rude and snotty to me all year and I could see why he would want some relief from her (she is totally bitchy, lol.)

It was also psychological for me as it helped to show me I don't have to be the "goody goody" all the time, and it was secret revenge against this teacher who has been a total ass to me all year for no reason (his wife.) I know she has about 15 years on me (he is younger than her and more attractive) and I am way cuter so I think that is why she was playing the snot to me. also, I was the fun, cute teacher that students loved and had kids lined up in front of her room to visit before school, she was the boring, bitchy teacher the kids couldn't stand.

Let this be a lesson, your behavior will come back to get you, haha.

I don't feel guilty, but I definitely won't let this get any further.

 

Oh well.. I know what you mean.. when the 'horniness' takes over... I never had anything to do with a MM out of 'revenge' for the W.. but I know that it is hard sometimes to NOT do it...

 

I am presently fighting the urge to go with this new MM... the one who is buying my house.. I know he's fighting it just as much as I am..

 

Maybe the 'evil urge' will win ... again..

[Gawdess]

Thanks for understanding, Lizzie. I see it as harmless as I am intending it not to go any further. If his wife were nice to me I wouldn't have done it.

If I hadn't met his wife ever, I probably would have done it. It's just one night. (I hope. tee hee).

[carhill]

I'm going to need more rosaries...

[Cherry Blossom 35]

You'd better be VERY CAREFUL here.....you guys all work together. This could get very ugly.

[Touche]

I love it.

 

Let this be a lesson, your behavior will come back to get you, haha.

 

Yes, remember your own words Ms. Jones. I have a feeling this one is going to come back and bite you. And you will have deserved it.

 

Hope it was worth it.

[Gawdess]

You'd better be VERY CAREFUL here.....you guys all work together. This could get very ugly.

 

I know, school ends this week for the summer, I'm planning on letting it go and moving on. I am crushing on a single teacher at school who has been paying attention to me lately so I don't want this to get out.

Also I work at a middle school and am on the same team (meaning I have most of the same students as this guy's wife) so I do have to work with her quite a bit professionally.

I won't let this go any further, he and I agreed we will keep this a total secret. Also I don't want to lose my job, lol.

[Gawdess]

I love it.

 

 

 

Yes, remember your own words Ms. Jones. I have a feeling this one is going to come back and bite you. And you will have deserved it.

 

Hope it was worth it.

 

I see your point. I shouldn't have done it. At attractive guy was too much temptation last night.

But it won't happen again as I'd like to keep my job.

[carhill]

I need the address of that bar

[spookie]

your behavior will come back to get you, haha.

 

You better hope that's not true.

[Jilly Bean]

If his wife were nice to me I wouldn't have done it.

 

I am ashamed that we are the same gender. Honestly. Comments like this purely sicken me.

 

Remember - karma's a bitch.

[dreamergrl]

What really gets me is that, not only did you make out with him once, but again later?? All because his wife was a bitch to you at school? This is going to be harsh, but perhaps the kids at school get along with you better because they relate to your maturity level more.

[Touche]

dreamer, funny you brought that up. I was going to say something along the same lines. The best teachers aren't always the most well-liked.

 

I have so much more to say but really...what's the point? Waste of time.

[dreamergrl]

Things like this make me wonder what type of morals are demonstrated with some teachers. It's one thing to display this type of behavior in your own life, but to bring it into an environment that involves kids...

 

I know it wasn't done at school, but still with fellow co-workers who all are involved with this kids. It's not like it's just an office affair..

[whichwayisup]

Wait a minute, you're a teacher and doing this? Wow. I feel sorry for your students!

 

You and her husband are complete fools for doing this.

[Gawdess]

Wait a minute, you're a teacher and doing this? Wow. I feel sorry for your students!

 

You and her husband are complete fools for doing this.

 

I am a very good teacher with high ratings. I actually had parents tell me they were very glad their students were in my class.

My personal life at a bar on a Saturday night has nothing to do with my teaching abilities.

[Gawdess]

Things like this make me wonder what type of morals are demonstrated with some teachers. It's one thing to display this type of behavior in your own life, but to bring it into an environment that involves kids...

 

I know it wasn't done at school, but still with fellow co-workers who all are involved with this kids. It's not like it's just an office affair..

 

It's not bringing it into an environment that involves kids.

I work hard at my job and it has nothing to do with my personal life, they are separate.

[sfsassy]

I was out with some coworkers (teachers), and the bar was smoky so I went outside to get some fresh air. (I have smoke allergy issues.) Anyway this attractive male history teacher followed me out and we ended up making out. His wife works in the same building, in fact her room is across the hall from me.

We went back in and then about an hour later he started to get up and gave me "the eye" so I followed him 5 minutes later and we ended up making out some more outside, and he got to 2nd base with me.

I don't feel really guilty since his wife has been rude and snotty to me all year and I could see why he would want some relief from her (she is totally bitchy, lol.)

It was also psychological for me as it helped to show me I don't have to be the "goody goody" all the time, and it was secret revenge against this teacher who has been a total ass to me all year for no reason (his wife.) I know she has about 15 years on me (he is younger than her and more attractive) and I am way cuter so I think that is why she was playing the snot to me. also, I was the fun, cute teacher that students loved and had kids lined up in front of her room to visit before school, she was the boring, bitchy teacher the kids couldn't stand.

Let this be a lesson, your behavior will come back to get you, haha.

I don't feel guilty, but I definitely won't let this get any further.

There is this guy who is cute whose wife just doesn't appreciate him. We were friends way before they were together. Anyway, I guess if he ever flirts with me, I have permission to just go after him, because she is a bit bitchy? Tell me what school you work at, so if I have kids I make sure never to send them there.!!!!!! And you know maybe tthe great guy did something to make her bitchy, that you know NOTHING about.

[Gawdess]

Things like this make me wonder what type of morals are demonstrated with some teachers. It's one thing to display this type of behavior in your own life, but to bring it into an environment that involves kids...

 

I know it wasn't done at school, but still with fellow co-workers who all are involved with this kids. It's not like it's just an office affair..

 

Just one coworker and the other coworkers were inside watching a show, and we were in an area they couldn't see us if they did come out (which they didn't.)

It's not an office affair, we haven't even slept together, just made out??? People stating that this makes me bad at my job in anyway are ignorant. If an architect made out with another architect who happens to be married at a bar parking lot with coworkers inside - this does not make him or her a bad architect.

[Gawdess]

I also wanted to repeat that he initiated. I was simply stepping outside for fresh air for a bit and he saw me and followed me out there. I had no idea he thought that way about me. I mean, he was always really friendly and such but I thought that must just be because he was in a bad marriage. Anyone married to her would be in a bad marriage.

[Gawdess]

There is this guy who is cute whose wife just doesn't appreciate him. We were friends way before they were together. Anyway, I guess if he ever flirts with me, I have permission to just go after him, because she is a bit bitchy? Tell me what school you work at, so if I have kids I make sure never to send them there.!!!!!! And you know maybe tthe great guy did something to make her bitchy, that you know NOTHING about.

 

Nah, it's her personality. I work with an autistic child who is in her class and she kept telling me how "children like that have no busines being in her class." to my face. she kept asking me if there was "any way I could get rid of that autistic kid and could I keep him in my room all day? He doesn't belong in her class." As if I have anything to do with scheduling, and the kid has a fulltime aide and actually is smart, just needs assistance. This is the kind of bitchy woman I'm talking about. She blamed me that she had an autistic kid in her classroom all year.

 

I don't know if he's a good husband or not but she really does complain and bitch a lot, I don't know why she's in teaching.

[Gawdess]

There is this guy who is cute whose wife just doesn't appreciate him. We were friends way before they were together. Anyway, I guess if he ever flirts with me, I have permission to just go after him, because she is a bit bitchy? Tell me what school you work at, so if I have kids I make sure never to send them there.!!!!!! And you know maybe tthe great guy did something to make her bitchy, that you know NOTHING about.

 

He initiated the making out, I wasn't going after him, he was going after me, hon.

[Gawdess]

Things like this make me wonder what type of morals are demonstrated with some teachers. It's one thing to display this type of behavior in your own life, but to bring it into an environment that involves kids...

 

I know it wasn't done at school, but still with fellow co-workers who all are involved with this kids. It's not like it's just an office affair..

 

Uh, it's not like I'm going to go to school and tell all these kids that Mr. K came on to me and we made out at a bar. The kids at the school on Monday morning have nothing to do with this, lol.

[Lizzie60]

Hey.. wait a minute... this is not a bad idea at all...

 

If you have a biotch in your life.. get in bed with her husband ... to make it up to her..

 

Now... that's a good idea.. thanks..

[Gawdess]

Anyway, I was just stating what happened. This doesn't make me bad at my job. It doesn't mean his wife isn't bitchy (she is.) This has nothing to do with my work or his work (he just won a district award for teaching.) Just saying we made out (note, we didn't have sex??? I think this escaped some of you.) Also, I stated it wasn't going to happen again because I didn't want it to. Just something that happened at a bar (which was 45 minutes outside of our city, by the way.)