esmira Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 This guy (lets call him T) just stopped responding to me emails about a month ago, and i was sad, but i was like whatever, i guess it's over. T didnt have his phone then. but then i found out he has his phone, but i never called/emailed him for a month and neither did he. a week ago, however, i was drunk and i called him not expecting anything. but T called me back! and this is what he said, "hey.. where are you... we had great sex... but your friends hate me... well u have my number i have urs, we'll keep in touch... i am in LA to take care of some stuff..." but him calling me really threw me off because i never thought he'd call, and my suppressed feelings for him came back up. and then it was his bday this friday and i texted him, and he replied back "wow thanks!" i guess he was just amazed that i remembered his bday. and then i made the mistake of calling him again that night when i was drunk and emotional. we couldnt really talk bcus he was out and drunk. he never called back or anything. then last night, i was like okay let me get over T, let me meet someone new, and i did! someone quite sweet and goodlooking, and while i was with him, all i did was think about T!! and this time i got really emotional as i realized i fell for T, so i called him and left a long ass msg about how i fell for him. then i called him back and he was sleeping but he picked up and i told him that i fell for him and he said "you did?" lol and then i couldnt really hear him bcus i was outside etc. anyway, so now i feel STUPID for revealing my feelings for him bcus i dont even know what i am doing or where this is going or how he feels. i feel embarrassed and immature for the drunk calls. and he is confusing. sigh. he hasnt called yet, and i wanna know should i call him back to talk about this? to get some closure?
spookie Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 This guy (lets call him T) just stopped responding to me emails about a month ago, and i was sad, but i was like whatever, i guess it's over. T didnt have his phone then. but then i found out he has his phone, but i never called/emailed him for a month and neither did he. a week ago, however, i was drunk and i called him not expecting anything. but T called me back! and this is what he said, "hey.. where are you... we had great sex... but your friends hate me... well u have my number i have urs, we'll keep in touch... i am in LA to take care of some stuff..." but him calling me really threw me off because i never thought he'd call, and my suppressed feelings for him came back up. and then it was his bday this friday and i texted him, and he replied back "wow thanks!" i guess he was just amazed that i remembered his bday. and then i made the mistake of calling him again that night when i was drunk and emotional. we couldnt really talk bcus he was out and drunk. he never called back or anything. then last night, i was like okay let me get over T, let me meet someone new, and i did! someone quite sweet and goodlooking, and while i was with him, all i did was think about T!! and this time i got really emotional as i realized i fell for T, so i called him and left a long ass msg about how i fell for him. then i called him back and he was sleeping but he picked up and i told him that i fell for him and he said "you did?" lol and then i couldnt really hear him bcus i was outside etc. anyway, so now i feel STUPID for revealing my feelings for him bcus i dont even know what i am doing or where this is going or how he feels. i feel embarrassed and immature for the drunk calls. and he is confusing. sigh. he hasnt called yet, and i wanna know should i call him back to talk about this? to get some closure? I'm gonna be blunt. I think you have all the closure you need. He has given you no indication whatsoever that he feels you were more than a ONS. Leave him alone before he slaps a restraining order on you.
Author esmira Posted June 8, 2008 Author Posted June 8, 2008 I'm gonna be blunt. I think you have all the closure you need. He has given you no indication whatsoever that he feels you were more than a ONS. Leave him alone before he slaps a restraining order on you. ouch. i think you're right though. thanks.
Gawdess Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 I agree, I mean you were doing all the contacting, he was just returning your calls, and not always doing that. If he wanted to date you, or even to get together to talk things out, have a coffee with you, whatever, he would call you and initiate interest himself.
spookie Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 ouch. i think you're right though. thanks. It sucks but that's life. Delete his number from your phone and move on. This is not worth thinking about.
sidney23 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 I'm gonna be blunt. I think you have all the closure you need. He has given you no indication whatsoever that he feels you were more than a ONS. Leave him alone before he slaps a restraining order on you. Time to live and let live!
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 When you are older you won't do stuff like this. Then you will wonder why you ever did. But honey, we all did at some point Let it go, you will be fine.
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